In my opinion, a lot of the religious beliefs like suicide being atrocious and punishable, are really man-made beliefs attributed to God, in order to control society into something constructive.
Hence why no killing, stealing, lying, only sex within marriage - this would avoid barbaric disasters to an extent.
Now if there was an all loving all powerful god or gods, I think it's only logical that of course he/she/they would help their creations, rather than stand by and wait until asked.
What parent would let their child suffer until the child asked for help?
Why do no one feel empathy for your suffering?
Well, we do in here.
Thing is, your average normie simply does not have capacity to understand or relate to something as grave as what we have gone through.
It's like expecting a person on the streets to do a brain surgery to remove a cancer tumor.
They are not necessarily malicious, just incapable.
I don't know if this helps you feel better, it's just my opinions.