Help suicidal bf/gf

[DeadAimz]

so, my boyfriend is very depressed and suicidal like me. although i like having someone to relate to, it makes my mental health a whole lot worse and i don't know what to do about it. i love him so much but it's impacting me so much that i find it hard to deal with. he's the only person i have there for me.

does anybody else have a similar situation? or any advice?

 

[falloutcarter13]

Two people in love who are also suicidal is probably the most complicated issue on earth. It makes it so hard to know where your own feelings stop and theirs begin. I'm...I dunno, sorry? Glad? That you're in this situation. Its double edged, you've got someone who understands and cares to the max, but is also poisoning you at the same time. I've been here, I know what you're going through. Impossible to sort out. I'm here to listen, you can shoot me a pm (once you get privileges) if you want someone impartial to listen to you

 

[DeadAimz]

Two people in love who are also suicidal is probably the most complicated issue on earth. It makes it so hard to know where your own feelings stop and theirs begin. I'm...I dunno, sorry? Glad? That you're in this situation. Its double edged, you've got someone who understands and cares to the max, but is also poisoning you at the same time. I've been here, I know what you're going through. Impossible to sort out. I'm here to listen, you can shoot me a pm (once you get privileges) if you want someone impartial to listen to you

thank you so much i appreciate you writing that. and ya i'd like to talk about it with somebody that actually understands so i'll shoot you a message when i can (:

 

[falloutcarter13]

thank you so much ❤ i appreciate you writing that. and ya i'd like to talk about it with somebody that actually understands so i'll shoot you a message when i can (:

Good deal, I'll be around for another couple weeks at least =D

 

[Brick In The Wall]

so, my boyfriend is very depressed and suicidal like me. although i like having someone to relate to, it makes my mental health a whole lot worse and i don't know what to do about it. i love him so much but it's impacting me so much that i find it hard to deal with. he's the only person i have there for me.

does anybody else have a similar situation? or any advice?

My ex girlfriend was a member here. She was already suicidal when we met and I introduced her to the place.

There isn't much you can really do about it but be supportive and try to help pick eachother back up. That or just accept it for what it is.

Edit to add: She ended up self banning and going on to recover. We split amicably and she's doing better. Just wanted to clarify before anyone assumes she caught the bus.

 

[Lorntroubles]

I was the suicidal one and it took a lot of patience, understanding, empathy, and loyalty to have me in a better place. I'm not with my SO now because....well.... I'd rather not go down that topic. </3 Logically speaking, two suicidal people dating is super hard to do. I can't say it can't be done but you're at two heads butting each other. Having two people un-fuck themselves will take a lot of grit.

 

[Fadinglife]

It's not that hard if two people are like very similar to each other. Like male of female version of their partner. Love each other fiercly, put each other first. Have a world together, with each other and for each other; a shared vision of future. Where bond is built on the depths of darkness and they have been there for each other consistently in worst of times. Similar interest, values, goals. Desire to make the best of life and compensate for the lost time with each other while are here. You start fearing death as in what will happen if get in accident to your partner. You can't see them in pain. When that exceeds the suffering you are in. You are each othee's priority and feel safe with each other. Trust each other the most in world. It is very healing.

 

[DeadAimz]

I was the suicidal one and it took a lot of patience, understanding, empathy, and loyalty to have me in a better place. I'm not with my SO now because....well.... I'd rather not go down that topic. </3 Logically speaking, two suicidal people dating is super hard to do. I can't say it can't be done but you're at two heads butting each other. Having two people un-fuck themselves will take a lot of grit.

i agree, thank you

It's not that hard if two people are like very similar to each other. Like male of female version of their partner. Love each other fiercly, put each other first. Have a world together, with each other and for each other; a shared vision of future. Where bond is built on the depths of darkness and they have been there for each other consistently in worst of times. Similar interest, values, goals. Desire to make the best of life and compensate for the lost time with each other while are here. You start fearing death as in what will happen if get in accident to your partner. You can't see them in pain. When that exceeds the suffering you are in. You are each othee's priority and feel safe with each other. Trust each other the most in world. It is very healing.

thank you so much