Venting Someone like me?

[Eren]

I am an inept relationship, both friendship and romantic, but sometimes I dream of sharing my life with another person, but then I remember being useless for those things :/

 

[Tyuiop]

There are lot of people like you in this world... I'm one like that too, I dream of love, but no one finds me fun, and I end up insecure and demanding in relationships - giving nothing but taking it all. And I only have one friend, who's depressed and nowhere in life too.

 

[Eren]

There are lot of people like you in this world... I'm one like that too, I dream of love, but no one finds me fun, and I end up insecure and demanding in relationships - giving nothing but taking it all. And I only have one friend, who's depressed and nowhere in life too.

Hugs

 

[Roulette]

Yeah, I wish i wasn't so socially inept
I'm sort of okay with being alone, as I've always been since birth, but then I watch something like an anime where friendships seem nice and i'm like damn it'd be nice to have that

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

Well, there's always someone as "useless" as you. You're far from useless, of course. But there is always a need for companionship, maybe even more so among people who feel they are broken. Assuming others are perfect and have it all figured out while you're in a bad place yourself is a mistake. I mean, I felt like I was pretty screwed up until I started dating girls, then I realized I actually had a pretty good head on my shoulders by comparison.

If you're serious about making connections with people, you will have to consistently put yourself in real world situations that are conducive to that. That's not always easy to do, especially if you're an introvert. But we all have to start somewhere.

 

[Jodes]

Life and love are about bonding through troubles, cooperating in tough times. That creates bonds.Then comes the happiness.

People seem to forget what real bonds are, what they need to be nurtured.

And people ignore true beauty, don't ask me why

 

[Virgo]

Yeah, except wanting to be in a relationship. I'm to apathetic to give a shit rn.

 

[Jodes]

Yeah, except wanting to be in a relationship. I'm to apathetic to give a shit rn.

I have volatile moods to say the least, so I get the whole works, but mostly just the desire to go. I guess it gives me somewhat of a chance to give/have/feel/show love before I go. I'm sorry not everyone can do that. It's better to have loved and lost. But given the choice, it's easier if the loss isn't part of it

 

[Red star]

Yes and I'm trying to improve it so I can connect to people better. Its definitly something that hasto be learned. Its not something thats programmed already