Maybe I'm just salty but I hate it when someone automatically pegs you as troublesome and annoying to be around simply for having horrific life circumstances and being disabled. Must be great to sit on your high horse with a fully functioning body to boot.
Like, the type of individual whose most pressing concern is what flavor of coffee they will force the intern at their wage slave job to brew for them, and what excuse they can use to avoid talking to their wife later that night cause someone at work pestered them about filling out extra excel files and they're sooo annoyed.
Those are the people who love to say anyone with dehabilitating issues are toxic and no fun. The same people who will complain about everything, but it's alright, cause their complaints and disdain for muh car muh job and muh wife are socially acceptable, while ours aren't.