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The problems in my life are becoming too much and i feel like going in to psych ward i will no longer have deal with my problems.

I can escape the outside world

Do psychartic wards make you better or worse?

Is it a good idea to admit yourself to a psycharitic hospital to escape the outside world
 
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Honestly it truly depends on the psych ward you go to and the staff there cause I've been to some that I actually found helpful and felt safe there and others not so much. It could be a good place to go to though especially if you're feeling out of control. But I don't wanna say anything for sure since each experience can be very different. But I think if it's something you're considering it wouldn't hurt to try. I'm sorry I don't have anything really helpful to say and I wish I could be more helpful. And I'm wishing things get easier for you I'm really sorry you're going thru this
 
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You might end up with more problems, but I'm sure it will be a nice temporary escape and they will drug u. If u get trapped in an institution it might suck though. I've heard they torture the patients in longterm psychiatric places. That's what is scary u could end up in a prison like holding place where they might never let u out. I'm not sure what that takes to get into those places but I read an article of a guy who decided to go to a psych place instead of prison and he said it was awful and he couldn't get out. He wasn't mentally ill he just didn't realize what they were going to do to him in there. Some other people told him it was way easier and more comfortable than doing time in prison. So he didn't realize what he was getting into. He made a huge error in deciding to go there instead of doing his time.
 
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I did that a month ago. I had so many problems on my mind, I just couldn't take it. I went there and stayed for just one night. It helped a little I guess. It was a nice change of scenery. And I kinda liked talking to the staff. They didn't help much but they listened and gave me advice on things. I felt a little better for a while after that.
 
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You won't be escaping your problems really, they won't go away, just be postponed. You could get lucky and be sent to a decent place, or you could end up in a really bad one, and there's no escaping, you're locked in. You'll be sent where there are beds available. In general, the frontline staff can be very dismissive and treat patients with an us vs. them mentality, not many in my experience had much compassion. Most programs seek to stabilize with meds and send folks back out to community mental health or private treatment, with little to no one-on-one therapy. I was in one that was incredibly abusive, and patients were assaulted by other patients. In short, you could potentially end up in a very sick and abusive place, and not be able to get out until they let you. I used to have an idea that psych wards were a place to receive care and experience rest and respite, it's not like that. My experiences were in the US btw. England seems to have somewhat better programs. In the US, you will not be able to have your cell phone due to privacy laws (cell phones have cameras), and the majority do not allow computer access. They generally focus on meds and CBT groups, sometimes AA groups, sometimes trauma groups. I've met people who benefitted from the time away from the world, I won't say it's not possible, but it's a big risk to take.
 
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The problems in my life are becoming too much and i feel like going in to psych ward i will no longer have deal with my problems.

I can escape the outside world

Do psychartic wards make you better or worse?

Is it a good idea to admit yourself to a psycharitic hospital to escape the outside world

Ignore the some of the comments about being trapped/locked in/drugging you, if you go in voluntarily, which it sounds like applies to you, you will be free to leave at any time and meds or treatment will not be forced on you.

It seems some people have had negative experiences of psych wards which should not be discounted, although remember a persons mental illness may influence their assessment of their treatment.

My experience of a mental hospital stay really helped me out. I was forced to go in and forced on meds so not the same situation as you (being voluntary). There were patients i got to know who were voluntary and they were free to leave at any time and meds/treatment were a choice. They appeared pretty content with how they were treated. You will get the regular attentions of a psychiatrist or psychologist which you might not do otherwise.
 
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I just feel so lost in life and want an escape. I dont really want to go in to a psych ward

I cant cope without a routine and structure since leaving university

At psych ward i will have routine, people to talk to, i wont have to deal with the pressure anymore to find a job
 
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I just feel so lost in life and want an escape. I dont really want to go in to a psych ward

I cant cope without a routine and structure since leaving university

At psych ward i will have routine, people to talk to, i wont have to deal with the pressure anymore to find a job
If you really are at the end of your tether then it could be worth a try.
But wanting routine, people to talk to, and escaping the pressures of finding a job probably won't justify to your psychiatrist making you an voluntary inpatient, beds are limited. You need to have a diagnosed mental health problem like schizophrenia, bi-polar, severe depression or be suicidal etc, idk if any of those apply to you (may be being suicidal does as you are here).
 
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The problems in my life are becoming too much and i feel like going in to psych ward i will no longer have deal with my problems.

I can escape the outside world

Do psychartic wards make you better or worse?

Is it a good idea to admit yourself to a psycharitic hospital to escape the outside world

I have really liked being hospitalized twice. It was a kind of escape and rest. It's a HELL of a lot better if you admit yourself. And both times I signed myself out after a while, even against medical advice. It's totally ok to do but they will all frown at you for doing it. But, overall, I gained a lot each time I was hospitalized. It has not fixed my desire to Ctb per se, but it contributed to a measure of healing, wholeness and restoration which I am grateful for.
I have really liked being hospitalized twice. It was a kind of escape and rest. It's a HELL of a lot better if you admit yourself. And both times I signed myself out after a while, even against medical advice. It's totally ok to do but they will all frown at you for doing it. But, overall, I gained a lot each time I was hospitalized. It has not fixed my desire to Ctb per se, but it contributed to a measure of healing, wholeness and restoration which I am grateful for.

I guess I will also say that I had the great fortune of being placed on wards with generally emotionally disturbed folks. I did not have to stay on a ward where there were severe psychosis or other more extreme mental instabilities going on. I imagine those types of wards are harder if you generally just have depression and anxiety. If you can get on a ward with others like you, staff will stay focused on therapeutic connections, not just crisis management. It's a little like being in jail or something but I am super adaptable and laid back. I met some of the most beautiful, hitting people there too. I still remember each face....
I have really liked being hospitalized twice. It was a kind of escape and rest. It's a HELL of a lot better if you admit yourself. And both times I signed myself out after a while, even against medical advice. It's totally ok to do but they will all frown at you for doing it. But, overall, I gained a lot each time I was hospitalized. It has not fixed my desire to Ctb per se, but it contributed to a measure of healing, wholeness and restoration which I am grateful for.


I guess I will also say that I had the great fortune of being placed on wards with generally emotionally disturbed folks. I did not have to stay on a ward where there were severe psychosis or other more extreme mental instabilities going on. I imagine those types of wards are harder if you generally just have depression and anxiety. If you can get on a ward with others like you, staff will stay focused on therapeutic connections, not just crisis management. It's a little like being in jail or something but I am super adaptable and laid back. I met some of the most beautiful, hitting people there too. I still remember each face....
*hurting people, not hitting
 
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I wish we had the option to do this in the UK.
 
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I wish we had the option to do this in the UK.
Voluntarily becoming an inpatient does happen in the UK afaik.

@beloved the mental hospital i was in was segregated by wards for male or female, and a separate ward for the elderly. there was no segregation by illness. at lunch and recreation time etc we all mixed. there were some pretty far out people and a staff member did get struck once but i never felt threatened. it wasn't the most peaceful place as some people were talking/singing loudly etc, the person in the next room to me used to listen to his radio in the early hours of the morning but i complained about it and he stopped. i too remember fondly some of the people i got to know a little.

there was a separate ward where the door was always locked and the outside attached garden to it had a high fence securing it, i was told this was where the dangerous people were located. i never seen anyone leave or enter it or anyone in its garden so idk how true this was.
 
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No it doesn't unfortunately. Well at least not where I live.
 
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Antibody246

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no. they will blast you with evil wifi frequencies, give you bad food and put you on mind numbing drugs.
 
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Worse choice you could make. It's like volunteering to go to prison. It will only make your life suck more.
 
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If you feel unsafe and want help, I would suggest going to a psych ward/hospital. Would be best to look up where you're going. Some places will treat you nice and some won't just treat you like another patient. If you want help, best to go for help. Shows you want to live.
 
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