Seems you have to be aggressive

[nextstepdeath]

Seems you have to be aggressive for everything in life. I'm not. Boohoo. Don't know if I've been weeded out of the evolutionary race. Probably.

 

[Lookingtoflyfree]

I feel the same way - people expect a certain brutal toughness in the workplace and i'm just beaten down at this point.

 

[ctbusser]

Try agressive sports like boxing, wrestling, rugby, or just simple powerlifting. Physical dominance really boosts up confidence.