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Enlightened
- Apr 8, 2020
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I have spent this entire past month feeling extremely depressed over how the 55 year old man I fell in love with has treated at work yes I do blame myself for certain things but now I realise real men don't humiliate women. Real men talk honestly about their feelings.
Before the arsehole went behind my back and went to our boss a couple of days earlier I found out he was not being truthful about his relationship status. He always knew how I liked him but he never ever honest in the beginning about his relationship status. I got suspicious when he began to distance himself from me so I decided to investigate and set up a trap to catch him out to find the truth. That is how I found out he has an older girlfriend in her 50s who he has been on/off for over 20 years. The time period he gave me his full attention he was not together with the partner. I pieced it together.
I questioned and scrutinised him over his relationships and and he couldn't cope with my questioning as I kept firing questions naturally I was upset. During the comfrontion the phone line even cut at one point and he told me it was customer on the other end of the line. He cut the line himself. I also found out about his other relationship because the man was stupid to tell me everything his entire relationship history including with women in the company in other departments he previously worked in.
I was so offended when the man said to me he doesn't date 25 years old because he "cant keep up" with a 25 year old woman. I was so mad and I mocked his lack of masculinity.
I told the man I have fallen in love with him and I wished him well in his relationship. When I did ask the the man if this is going to be problem because I wanted work relations between us to be good. He was telling me not to worry and we were good then he goes to our boss. He tells the boss he feels "uncomfortable" being around me at work and arsehole tells the boss my feelings for him. The whole thing was humiliating as I got dragged into a humiliating work meeting with the management. I felt so violated and humiliated after the questioning. The arsehole treated me like a pariah at work and in the office stared at me as if I was a stranger.
I felt so betrayed that he couldn't sit down and be honest with me and lies to me then goes to our boss. I still do feel betrayed as all I ever shown that man was kindness, been a supportive work colleagues.I blame myself for everything. I now know a real man will never humiliate a woman.
Before the arsehole went behind my back and went to our boss a couple of days earlier I found out he was not being truthful about his relationship status. He always knew how I liked him but he never ever honest in the beginning about his relationship status. I got suspicious when he began to distance himself from me so I decided to investigate and set up a trap to catch him out to find the truth. That is how I found out he has an older girlfriend in her 50s who he has been on/off for over 20 years. The time period he gave me his full attention he was not together with the partner. I pieced it together.
I questioned and scrutinised him over his relationships and and he couldn't cope with my questioning as I kept firing questions naturally I was upset. During the comfrontion the phone line even cut at one point and he told me it was customer on the other end of the line. He cut the line himself. I also found out about his other relationship because the man was stupid to tell me everything his entire relationship history including with women in the company in other departments he previously worked in.
I was so offended when the man said to me he doesn't date 25 years old because he "cant keep up" with a 25 year old woman. I was so mad and I mocked his lack of masculinity.
I told the man I have fallen in love with him and I wished him well in his relationship. When I did ask the the man if this is going to be problem because I wanted work relations between us to be good. He was telling me not to worry and we were good then he goes to our boss. He tells the boss he feels "uncomfortable" being around me at work and arsehole tells the boss my feelings for him. The whole thing was humiliating as I got dragged into a humiliating work meeting with the management. I felt so violated and humiliated after the questioning. The arsehole treated me like a pariah at work and in the office stared at me as if I was a stranger.
I felt so betrayed that he couldn't sit down and be honest with me and lies to me then goes to our boss. I still do feel betrayed as all I ever shown that man was kindness, been a supportive work colleagues.I blame myself for everything. I now know a real man will never humiliate a woman.
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