sufferingalways

sufferingalways

Avoiding flashing images, epilepsy.
Apr 26, 2020
550
Hello forum people

After I saw an image about anger posted elsewhere I had the idea to copy and paste this helpful text.
The site name is at the bottom for anyone interested.

For self help and awareness here is the text;


Anger levels


Level 1. This is where you're cool, calm and collected. You may or may not be real happy, but you're definitely not angry, anxious or irritated. If this was you most of the time, you wouldn't even be reading about this anger management assessment.



Level 2. You're feeling slightly irritated or agitated, but it's not enough to bother you or affect your behavior. You can see the big picture when you think about your problems. It is hard to relax with the agitation you are experiencing, however.



Level 3. The irritation and frustration is pretty high, and it's just starting to affect your behavior. It is almost possible to relax with the agitation you are experiencing. It's getting harder to see the big picture and have empathy with other people.



Level 4. People are really starting to bother you, and you have very little patience, although you usually don't say anything. You are still stuffing your anger, and you don't feel settled at all. You can still focus enough to make good decisions.



Level 5. Now you are ready to yell at that other driver, or call the people you're mad at and give them a piece of your mind. But you don't act on the feelings. You're getting short and irritable with others, but you're still trying to be friendly. You're starting to have tunnel vision.



Level 6. At this level, it's just not fun anymore. You are frustrated and angry with yourself and pretty much everybody else. Others are starting to notice that something is wrong, as you become more short-tempered and irritable. Your thinking may not be as clear as it usually is.



Level 7. You are thinking stuff like, "This has to stop." "I can't take this any more." "I'm going to show them they can't do this to me." "They'll get what's coming to them."
You have racing thoughts, and you're very tense. You keep thinking the same things over and over. That's why you decided to take this anger management assessment.


Level 8. Now you're coming up with a plan. You can't take it any more, so you're going to take action. You feel like you have no choice, because something has to change.

You're not thinking clearly, and even though you know it might backfire, you're thinking about getting even and retaliating.



Level 9. Now you're taking action. This is where the yelling, threatening and intimidating starts. You're thinking about what you can do to the other person(s) to show them how angry you are, and how wrong they are.
Your emotions are ruling you at this level. You really need some anger management help, but you probably don't know it.



Level 10. At this level, you are dangerous to yourself and/or others. You are in a fight-or-flight mode, and your primitive reptilian brain has taken over. You have tunnel vision and single-minded thought.



All you can think about is how to make the pain stop. You feel helpless, but you can't stand that feeling.



You are desperate. Your anger is doing your thinking for you. It's a really good thing that you took this anger management assessment.


Source;
Anger management resource. Com
 
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sufferingalways

sufferingalways

Avoiding flashing images, epilepsy.
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8. Though the action won't be retaliation as such. It will be a lawyer to fix the mess and means we will get sleep again. Zzzzzzz
 
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I was really p*ssed off today, so I'd say it's a 9. I wouldn't harm myself or others, though.
 
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8 working towards 7 but if they step up to me again its 9.
 
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