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TiredHorse

Enlightened
Nov 1, 2018
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My first post here was about the lack of security/privacy on the email delayed-delivery service TimeCave. I have since shifted to LetterMeLater, but I was still paranoid enough about it last night that I didn't feel comfortable using it. I would have made do, but it wouldn't have been as certain.

I also found it surprisingly difficult to hit <send> on those delayed emails, even knowing I could go back in and cancel them. Since I am writing this now, instead of at last at peace, I obviously would have needed that feature.

This morning I went looking for what I've always heard called a "deadman's switch": an email is all ready to go, but it doesn't need me to hit <send>, it will send automatically if I don't do anything.

The good news is that there are several services that do just that. Write your emails, place them in the queue, and at a pre-determined interval of non-communication, the website sends them. The first two I stumbled on are:

https://www.deadmansswitch.net/
https://www.phpmillion.com/dead-man-switch/

The bad news is that to get a service worth having --for instance, a delay interval less than a month, or more than two emails-- they're a paid site. But the first one, which looks the best to me, is only $20 for a lifetime account. It may be worth it.

I've realized that the preparations/rituals of ctb are becoming a hindrance. They are no longer a running start, but a hill to climb before I can reach the cliff edge and jump. I've had three failures to ctb in three weeks, and I'm getting desperate to streamline my process. For that, $20 might be worth it.
 
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TAW122

Emissary of the right to die.
Aug 30, 2018
7,355
That looks interesting and while I don't have many people I wish to contact or write a notification to, I'll consider it when the time gets much closer to when I choose actually get to ctb'ing.
 
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hikikomori

hikikomori

Attention whore and regular whore
Oct 23, 2018
209
u can also write a google script also if u have a gmail
 
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Jen Erik

Jen Erik

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Oct 12, 2018
637
Zoho Mail has a native option to schedule an email to send at a specific time built into their web mail interface; this isn't a third party plug-in like Boomerang or Email Studio for gmail.

I've tested it out and it works as expected. It did not require me to be logged into my mail at the time the email was sent. Email can be deleted before the scheduled sending time if necessary.

They offer free personal accounts.
 
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ddutch

Done with life
Oct 28, 2018
396
My first post here was about the lack of security/privacy on the email delayed-delivery service TimeCave. I have since shifted to LetterMeLater, but I was still paranoid enough about it last night that I didn't feel comfortable using it. I would have made do, but it wouldn't have been as certain.

https://www.deadmansswitch.net/
https://www.phpmillion.com/dead-man-switch/


I've realized that the preparations/rituals of ctb are becoming a hindrance. They are no longer a running start, but a hill to climb before I can reach the cliff edge and jump. I've had three failures to ctb in three weeks, and I'm getting desperate to streamline my process. For that, $20 might be worth it.

Good one, never tought of that.
new one for the list to do before departure
 
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Vitosaurus

Member
Mar 18, 2018
12
Thank you for your research. I'm still to wary of electronic mail. Doing the deed itself brings already many insecurities/being scared. Another smal ldoubt might be the drop that I would postphone it yet another time.

I'ld personaly leave nothing or if I had to, one written note/story on the place where I'ld die. You can adress several people there or seal envelopes so they can't read eachothers messages.
 
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