Dumbass
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- Jun 4, 2019
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Already planned for Feb 18th, but I keep having second guesses and such. I don't know what to do now.
I can't put off my ctb too much because my meto is expiringFor what it's worth here are my thoughts. Never CTB until you are absolutely sure. I spent a very long time making absolutely sure there was no other way for me. If you have doubts then listen to them, analyze them, make sure of your decision. You can take all the time you want to be sure. CTB is something that can be put off a million times. It will still be there for you when you are absolutely sure.
It's kind of a mix of both, but moreso the latter aha. I guess you're right though, I can wait a bit more. It's not February yet.Second guesses on what day? Or second guesses on whether to go through with the plans? I'm assuming the latter, but you never know.
What's making you second guess it?
You know what people say, if you second guess things, you might want to think about it more first.
Thank you, I actually kind of needed that! ;;^^ I think I'll see where my thoughts go and I'll see if I still have the same doubts on the 18thFor what it's worth here are my thoughts. Never CTB until you are absolutely sure. I spent a very long time making absolutely sure there was no other way for me. If you have doubts then listen to them, analyze them, make sure of your decision. You can take all the time you want to be sure. CTB is something that can be put off a million times. It will still be there for you when you are absolutely sure.
That makes sense! I've only really felt this way for maybe a year or two and only decided the date about a month ago. I'll give it more time.It's taken me two decades of thinking about ctb. I suggest that this is a similar length of time for many on here. It takes a long time to reason everything through properly. I just found in the end that my brain doesn't work properly. It didn't matter how much I tried to reengineer or tinker with it, it was the same old sucky brain. I still love it and I still love me. It's just the way it is.
That makes sense! I've only really felt this way for maybe a year or two and only decided the date about a month ago. I'll give it more time.
Already planned for Feb 18th, but I keep having second guesses and such. I don't know what to do now.