Venting Personal Space!

[English_Rose]

I'm not sure how much more I can take, before I loose all sense of sanity! what is it with STRANGERS or even people you know, entering you're personal space without asking, like sudden random hugs, like sudden random kisses on the face, like going into your home and having a good look around and thinking they have the right to treat it as their home!
I know this may seem very petty, but I've had enough of people invading my personal space! I feel like saying back the fuck off or else I will show you what I really am capable of!! Idiot's...

Sorry, I needed to vent!
Am I the only person who finds this irritating???
People make me want to CTB! I find it hard to just be normal around other people, they are one of the reasons why I want to CTB.

 

[About_to_Go]

I feel like saying back the fuck off or else I will show you what I really am capable of!!

I think a milder version of this is the way to go. It's important to set boundaries and make them clear. It's possible that the people in your life just don't realize that they're irritating you. If they still don't respect your boundaries after you've made them clear, I think it would be a good time to evaluate if you want these people in your life.

Good luck! :)

 

[English_Rose]

I think a milder version of this is the way to go. It's important to set boundaries and make them clear. It's possible that the people in your life just don't realize that they're irritating you. If they still don't respect your boundaries after you've made them clear, I think it would be a good time to evaluate if you want these people in your life.

Good luck! :)

Thank you, I'm usually mild mannered so it's not my usual way to tell people to back off, but I'm just a little frustrated. I will however, heed your advice and try it that way! I just think people should use common sense and know that boundries should always be respected.

 

[Final_frontier]

At least, these people care about you, I think,to give you hugs and kisses. I'm a small weak guy with mental illness and when i was in college hostel, this big black guy used to come into my room every day just to say things that would irritate me, kick me on my butt, hit me behind my head and all other bullying stuff. There was basically nothing I could do since he was bigger and stronger. Nature's cruel because it is basically survival of the fittest.

 

[F_ckthisplace]

I can see why they wanna kiss you to be honest lol.

 

[English_Rose]

At least, these people care about you, I think,to give you hugs and kisses. I'm a small weak guy with mental illness and when i was in college hostel, this big black guy used to come into my room every day just to say things that would irritate me, kick me on my butt, hit me behind my head and all other bullying stuff. There was basically nothing I could do since he was bigger and stronger. Nature's cruel because it is basically survival of the fittest.

I'm sorry that you went through that bad experience. How cruel. It's not kind and people like that need a big foot up their own bottoms. But I also have a mental illness, Bipolar! but refuse to let anybody put me down! and you say it's nice that they care, I don't like that they think it's ok to invade my space like that, I find affection of any kind hard to deal with, that's why I struggle.

 

[English_Rose]

I can see why they wanna kiss you to be honest lol.

Thank you..I think lol

 

[EmotionlessWanderer]

I'm this way whenever someone brings their kids over. They either try to talk to me 24/7 or beg me to play video games with them on a console I spared to my parents.

I pretend like I didn't hear a single thing they say and either tune up music or shut myself in my room. I'm not a kid person.

They will probably grow up and think I'm an asshole but honestly I don't care.

 

[English_Rose]

I'm this way whenever someone brings their kids over. They either try to talk to me 24/7 or beg me to play video games with them on a console I spared to my parents.

I pretend like I didn't hear a single thing they say and either tune up music or shut myself in my room. I'm not a kid person.

They will probably grow up and think I'm an asshole but honestly I don't care.

Other peoples kids, yeah that really is annoying! It's like they think you have to be the kindest person to these miniature people "kids" but they can be the most soul destroying annoying little things when they just won't shut up..I feel you on that lol

 

[dmoroden]

Hi there! hey, i think they might not know those attitudes bothers you... just let them know, in a quiet talk, you know? like "hey, i apreciate you care about me, but i really dont feel comfortable about close contact, so please, could you stop huging and kissing me?" just that... dont need to make them explode ^^

 

[English_Rose]

Hi there! hey, i think they might not know those attitudes bothers you... just let them know, in a quiet talk, you know? like "hey, i apreciate you care about me, but i really dont feel comfortable about close contact, so please, could you stop huging and kissing me?" just that... dont need to make them explode ^^

If only it was that simple! I've asked before, they just laugh and think I'm being "dramatic" it's infuriating and really makes my MH go a little all over the place.

 

[dmoroden]

If only it was that simple! I've asked before, they just laugh and think I'm being "dramatic" it's infuriating and really makes my MH go a little all over the place.

oh... i see... im sad to know that. Well, sometimes the only way to make them understand its really by the hard way then. You told you are mild mannered, so i know its hard, im too... but if they are doing you feel bad and you already told them and they dont understand, a little shout could take them into place. Its hard, but sometimes you have to think of yourself first.

 

[English_Rose]

oh... i see... im sad to know that. Well, sometimes the only way to make them understand its really by the hard way then. You told you are mild mannered, so i know its hard, im too... but if they are doing you feel bad and you already told them and they dont understand, a little shout could take them into place. Its hard, but sometimes you have to think of yourself first.

Thank you. I think you could be right. It's what I need to do.

 

[Gray Wounds]

Truth is, I feel the same way as you. People around me will not only be doing random hugs and kises but if I reject them (which I always do because I don't want any of what they're showing me) they'll go a bit violent and harsh with me afterwards.

And then, the house I'm in doesn't really feel like home due to my parents who really doesn't value nor mind my own privacy. They jus barge in and out of my room and gets angry when I tell them to somehow, give me some time with myself,and then they'll always check on my things to see what ever it is that they are hoping to see. It makes me so damn mad but that's not the worst of it.

The woman who adopted me started doing crazy religious things to me and to my room. I'm a LaVeyan Satanist and doesn't really care much about the religion of others. She's a Christian. But when I saw her, looking at my writings, at my laptop, at my phone (which contains only pdfs that aren't harmful) and making a cross on them with her fucking oil, that certainly have set me on the rage. Then at night, she'd be doing the same to me, putting her fucking prayer paper on my head as if I am possessed. It makes me soo mad!