Discussion People who have hope, How do you do it ?

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I tend to think about this, other people who also get sad or depressed, but keep going, ive talked with some of them, and their faith that things will get better is so certain as beliving in gravity.

I wonder how, how people can be like this, and how some can get like this you know ?

Theres also the ones who "shine", they feel like they've discovered something, like they get it what life is, and now they live with caml and bliss, i've always envyed them, with anger thinking, why not me you know ?, what do i have wrong with my brain ?

 

[SaintJosifStalin]

I think hope comes from within when one realizes one's ability to change his relationship with the universe. In the end man is not powerless.

Having said so, I am also a very angry person. I think anger is very human though. Yes, some people do seem to shine from a sense of inner happiness. I can't much comment on that except to say that I envy them too.

 

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I think hope comes from within when one realizes one's ability to change his relationship with the universe. In the end man is not powerless.

Having said so, I am also a very angry person. I think anger is very human though. Yes, some people do seem to shine from a sense of inner happiness. I can't much comment on that except to say that I envy them too.

yeah, they are the lucky ones, even thought im not to pity myself i cant stop feeling bad around them.

But i agree with you, that some have a power to change the its universe, is just that at this right moment i dont think i have, or at least dont see seeing worth cause of mental pain.

I remember talking to some, they say is gonna pass, i know is gonna pass, but i also know is going to come back.

I guess that comes a lot of endurance, how do you deal with problems and how do you take it life, see the positivy side, is strange, sometimes looks like magic.

I guess that to belive in a better future is to belive in yourself as well, thats the biggest struggle i have.

 

[SaintJosifStalin]

yeah, they are the lucky ones, even thought im not to pity myself i cant stop feeling bad around them.

But i agree with you, that some have a power to change the its universe, is just that at this right moment i dont think i have, or at least dont see seeing worth cause of mental pain.

I remember talking to some, they say is gonna pass, i know is gonna pass, but i also know is going to come back.

I guess that comes a lot of endurance, how do you deal with problems and how do you take it life, see the positivy side, is strange, sometimes looks like magic.

I guess that to belive in a better future is to belive in yourself as well, thats the biggest struggle i have.

Yes, when life beats you down it's easy to lose confidence. I agree with you.

 

[Valky]

It's like when you're mad at someone and you want to yell at them, tell them that you hate them but you know that deep down you don't and that if you were calm you would not feel this way.
It's the same thing with depression. You're kind of stuck in a bubble and everything seems dark and gloomy and you can't seem to even remember what hope feels like but if you have highs every now and then they are definitely something you can grab onto, something that you can tell yourself that you will feel like this again.
It's hard not to lose hope if you are constantly in the state of despair, sadness and hopelessness.
I don't think that people that shine have it all figured out they just have the reassurance that even if it gets bad, it will also get better again and the memories of that hope helps them get through the bad times.

I think that if people tell you that awful sentence "it gets better", what they're really trying to do is try to reassure you that there is hope and light on the other side even if you can't see it.

 

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It's like when you're mad at someone and you want to yell at them, tell them that you hate them but you know that deep down you don't and that if you were calm you would not feel this way.
It's the same thing with depression. You're kind of stuck in a bubble and everything seems dark and gloomy and you can't seem to even remember what hope feels like but if you have highs every now and then they are definitely something you can grab onto, something that you can tell yourself that you will feel like this again.
It's hard not to lose hope if you are constantly in the state of despair, sadness and hopelessness.
I don't think that people that shine have it all figured out they just have the reassurance that even if it gets bad, it will also get better again and the memories of that hope helps them get through the bad times.

I think that if people tell you that awful sentence "it gets better", what they're really trying to do is try to reassure you that there is hope and light on the other side even if you can't see it.

yeah i undertand, i must say ive always hated that phase as well, the "it gets better", is really feels for me is just people trying to preach positivity, ive always wondered what would work better for me, i guess i would like to hear "it might getter better, but if you just end you will never find out".

 

[Macedonian1987]

I am depressed since 2003 and for a long time i too had hope that things will get better one day. Sadly i lost this hope and the main reason for me losing this hope was the fact that things become worse as the years progressed. Now things are so bad i will be ctb in a year or two. Why stay and needlesly suffer?

 

[nocatwaslost]

My life still has positive moments where I enjoy it and look forward to it. Nonetheless it gets harder and harder not seeing a substantial change for each day that I endure. So I try to enjoy the last shit out of this life, try to be a good person, give back as much as I can and if the universe still does not want me to continue this life, I will leave it. But it's not now