How many of you have made "friends" with people who are often inaccessible for reasons that don't seem credible or valid?
Like if they say they have to do something so they'll be around later to chat but then they just aren't. Or the thing they said they needed to do was obviously finished hours ago yet you still haven't heard from them? or they just drop a conversation with no explanation and are gone for hours or days? or just don't respond to things you ask them?
I guess that means they aren't real friends and are either just using you as an unimportant back up friend or see you as a charity case who they really don't care much about and with whom they will never truly become friends.
This happens to me even with people I have met on this forum. The people I've crossed on this forum have never proven to be better than what I cross in real life.
Like if they say they have to do something so they'll be around later to chat but then they just aren't. Or the thing they said they needed to do was obviously finished hours ago yet you still haven't heard from them? or they just drop a conversation with no explanation and are gone for hours or days? or just don't respond to things you ask them?
I guess that means they aren't real friends and are either just using you as an unimportant back up friend or see you as a charity case who they really don't care much about and with whom they will never truly become friends.
This happens to me even with people I have met on this forum. The people I've crossed on this forum have never proven to be better than what I cross in real life.
