Parents who use their kids

[rotten]

I sort of have this deep hatred of parents who use their kids one way or another. My only real purpose growing up was to be an obedient puppy. I'm not saying I had to many chores. I mean I was responsible for their happiness and giving them a good image. If I failed I was expected to just accept punishment. There was no fighting back I just had to take every hit without crying.

Even as an adult I'm expected to just blindly obey ( but these days I'm pretty nasty to deal with) And now they have their sights set on my credit and money. I really want to try to live but they've just been making it ten times harder. When I start getting good money coming in I want to try to invest in getting better. Not throw it towards whatever they want. Also I'm not stupid, they are sooo irresponsible with cash.

Outside my situation, I know people who have children just to save their shi**y relationship. They really want to bring an innocent life into the picture even though their husband/wife is f**king someone else. It makes me sick to think of what those kids will have to endure.

Idk that's my rant. What do guys think?

 

[mini_weeny]

My ex-friend got pregnant just to make her husband stay and financially support her, then she used her to win me so that she could take advantage of me. Obviously the woman was a narcissist sociopath and it ended pretty badly for me to the point of ending up here. So, surely your parents have some sociopathic traits and you should start reading about how to protect yourself from their toxicity and get away if possible. There nothing lower than using children as pawns to achieve their selfish goals. Ppl like that are disgusting.

 

[rotten]

My ex-friend got pregnant just to make her husband stay and financially support her, then she used her to win me so that she could take advantage of me. Obviously the woman was a narcissist sociopath and it ended pretty badly for me to the point of ending up here. So, surely your parents have some sociopathic traits and you should start reading about how to protect yourself from their toxicity and get away if possible. There nothing lower than using children as pawns to achieve their selfish goals. Ppl like that are disgusting.

I'm sorry that happened to you that's awful.

 

[mini_weeny]

I'm sorry that happened to you that's awful.

Thanks narcs and sociopaths are dangerous ppl, they will harm you so stay away from them.

 

[UterEntonaur]

Idk that's my rant. What do guys think?

I know a few people that became parents because they had the mental financial resources/stability to start a family. I also know a lot more "parents/parent", that didn't have mental or financial stability, but still had kids for their benefit.

Sadly, I don't think people realise that the "few cases" have become the "many cases" over the years