But that's the whole point, it's facing the truth that gives me these panic attacks and make me want to bang my head against the wall, makes me want to cut myself again. But I realize that living in self denial is no living at all but the truth about my feelings and myself is just crushing and the biggest of all is the truth that I have to ctb because I can't live this life and it's not for me and that makes me feel like I'm trapped and the walls are closing in and I can't breath again
I have these panic attacks too, with fast heart beat. You describe these terrible attacks well. I am sure a lot of members have these panic attacks. You panic because you just cannot believe how shit life is, was, and will be in the future. It is the realization that life is actually a nightmare and you feel completely helpless, not knowing how to deal with the rest of days, weeks, months, years, making you want to ctb asap.
Luckily, you are surrounded with like minded people here on SS.
We care for you!