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Sadmonster98
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- Jul 25, 2024
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So, i met a women online who is 2 years older than me. Although she started the friendship but lately I was the one who always started the conversation. I developed feelings for her, later I realised it was a Limerance.
She blocked me when I confessed my feelings accidentally. I want to make it clear she is a trauma survivor. I wanted to keep her as a friend, my intention was to never confess my feelings. I felt guilty for ruining our friendship. I cried for 2 weeks and within months my condition improved drastically, i felt a lot better. When we i almost got over her, then all of sudden she unblocked me and we started talking again. I was trying to maintain a healthy distance but she going through some difficult time that's why I texted her on daily basis to make sure she was okay. She even told me that she cherish our friendship and I've always been so kind to her even though she hasn't. She's now feeling better but now she stopped texting me. She ignores my social media posts. Replies too late. I don't think she considers me as a friend and that's reflecting in her behaviour. It's making me feel really bad for myself. What should I do? Should I end friendship with her? Is the way she's behaving is due to her traumas? What do you guys think about her?
She blocked me when I confessed my feelings accidentally. I want to make it clear she is a trauma survivor. I wanted to keep her as a friend, my intention was to never confess my feelings. I felt guilty for ruining our friendship. I cried for 2 weeks and within months my condition improved drastically, i felt a lot better. When we i almost got over her, then all of sudden she unblocked me and we started talking again. I was trying to maintain a healthy distance but she going through some difficult time that's why I texted her on daily basis to make sure she was okay. She even told me that she cherish our friendship and I've always been so kind to her even though she hasn't. She's now feeling better but now she stopped texting me. She ignores my social media posts. Replies too late. I don't think she considers me as a friend and that's reflecting in her behaviour. It's making me feel really bad for myself. What should I do? Should I end friendship with her? Is the way she's behaving is due to her traumas? What do you guys think about her?
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