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I'm choosing to die in a hotel room, but I feel guilty about making people clean up my mess. I also want to leave tips for them, ideally, and I want to make sure it goes to those who find me or clean me up (aah). I'm pondering now about the best way to distribute those tips, given I will be dead as shit and obviously can't hand them out meanwhile.

I have thought about stashing money in different places. Perhaps some obvious money in or by my belongings with a note, and then putting bills in different places where the cleaning staff might find them. Since we might poop when we die, lovely I know, I'm probably going to want to wear a diaper as well. FWIW I am not at all rich, just hate burdening people.

Can anyone relate? If so, what might be some ways to lessen the burden on hotel workers? X games bonus question: any hotel workers want to chime in? Would it be better to die in nature?
 
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first of all what methods you gonna use? then you can try to minimize the mess from that method you choose
 
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first of all what methods you gonna use? then you can try to minimize the mess from that method you choose
TY for your reply. I'll be using SN. So definitely if I vom I'll have a trash bag ready or something.
 
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TY for your reply. I'll be using SN. So definitely if I vom I'll have a trash bag ready or something.
hmm i choose the same method tbh. but i think yeah the diaper would works just in case
 
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hmm i choose the same method tbh. but i think yeah the diaper would works just in case
Yeah, I mean, I think that's the extent of what I can do. Just not leave a mess and a tip.
 
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I'm choosing to die in a hotel room, but I feel guilty about making people clean up my mess. I also want to leave tips for them, ideally, and I want to make sure it goes to those who find me or clean me up (aah). I'm pondering now about the best way to distribute those tips, given I will be dead as shit and obviously can't hand them out meanwhile.

I have thought about stashing money in different places. Perhaps some obvious money in or by my belongings with a note, and then putting bills in different places where the cleaning staff might find them. Since we might poop when we die, lovely I know, I'm probably going to want to wear a diaper as well. FWIW I am not at all rich, just hate burdening people.

Can anyone relate? If so, what might be some ways to lessen the burden on hotel workers? X games bonus question: any hotel workers want to chime in? Would it be better to die in nature?

In the end, you can't do a whole lot more than ensuring that hotel workers aren't the ones to actually discover you. The emotional trauma of that is far worse than any inconvenience for them doing the cleaning up afterwards.

Additionally, if your scene happens to be particularly gruesome, the hotel will likely get specialist forensic cleaners in anyway.

There may be issues around the room being a crime scene, as well as hotel rules on accepting money, that might make any donations you left problematic. Just be aware of this.
 
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In the end, you can't do a whole lot more than ensuring that hotel workers aren't the ones to actually discover you. The emotional trauma of that is far worse than any inconvenience for them doing the cleaning up afterwards.

Additionally, if your scene happens to be particularly gruesome, the hotel will likely get specialist forensic cleaners in anyway.

There may be issues around the room being a crime scene, as well as hotel rules on accepting money, that might make any donations you left problematic. Just be aware of this.

Wow, thank you very much for this response. I hadn't even thought about traumatizing them, which is obviously something I need to avoid. I'll consider these things going forward. Your posts are always very informative and helpful.
 
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Wow, thank you very much for this response. I hadn't even thought about traumatizing them, which is obviously something I need to avoid. I'll consider these things going forward. Your posts are always very informative and helpful.

You should be able to find threads about this particular aspect. Things are suggested like putting a warning note on the inner door of your hotel room, if it has an inner door. Otherwise pre-scheduled e-mails or texts to emergency services. The threads will elaborate.
 
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You should be able to find threads about this particular aspect. Things are suggested like putting a warning note on the inner door of your hotel room, if it has an inner door. Otherwise pre-scheduled e-mails or texts to emergency services. The threads will elaborate.
I had just begun thinking about delayed emails and texts. I'm at least familiar with those services. I'll research more; I should have searched first. Thank you so much <3
 
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I had just begun thinking about delayed emails and texts. I'm at least familiar with those services. I'll research more; I should have searched first. Thank you so much <3

No problem, and there are definitely existing threads comparing the benefits of different delayed e-mail and text services.
 
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