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beclou
Bee
- Dec 1, 2018
- 7
I need to get this off my chest.
7 years ago I left my mums house to live with my boyfriend. She was abusive and I had had enough so I just went. My boyfriend and I have a toxic relationship however I literally had nowhere else to go.
For the past 7 years I have tried and tried my HARDEST to improve my situation. I've tried to improve my relationship with my boyfriend, I've seen a counsellor for 4 years, I've tried to save money, weeded out toxic friendships, I've practiced yoga for 3 years, started wild swimming, attended the gym, practiced mindfulness and understood my attachment issues stemming from childhood.
My mental health has actually improved on a day to day basis and symptoms of depression and anxiety are generally more manageable. However I am financially no better off. My credit score is awful and my boyfriend has no job so we can't buy, let alone rent. We live in a council flat, where I am not even supposed to be. I can't save, have to borrow payday loansEVERY month and am stuck in debt. I have no real friends. Because of my learned patterns I only befriend people who are toxic and cause me more pain. I spend days only seeing my boyfriend who i don't even want to be around but have no choice.
For what feels like the thousandth time I'm back to wanting to die. My appearance has changed, I've lost hair and weight. When I think of the future I literally cannot bear it. I know one day I will kill myself. I know I will have to quit my job if I have a failed attempt and that is the only thing stopping me at the moment. So close ..
7 years ago I left my mums house to live with my boyfriend. She was abusive and I had had enough so I just went. My boyfriend and I have a toxic relationship however I literally had nowhere else to go.
For the past 7 years I have tried and tried my HARDEST to improve my situation. I've tried to improve my relationship with my boyfriend, I've seen a counsellor for 4 years, I've tried to save money, weeded out toxic friendships, I've practiced yoga for 3 years, started wild swimming, attended the gym, practiced mindfulness and understood my attachment issues stemming from childhood.
My mental health has actually improved on a day to day basis and symptoms of depression and anxiety are generally more manageable. However I am financially no better off. My credit score is awful and my boyfriend has no job so we can't buy, let alone rent. We live in a council flat, where I am not even supposed to be. I can't save, have to borrow payday loansEVERY month and am stuck in debt. I have no real friends. Because of my learned patterns I only befriend people who are toxic and cause me more pain. I spend days only seeing my boyfriend who i don't even want to be around but have no choice.
For what feels like the thousandth time I'm back to wanting to die. My appearance has changed, I've lost hair and weight. When I think of the future I literally cannot bear it. I know one day I will kill myself. I know I will have to quit my job if I have a failed attempt and that is the only thing stopping me at the moment. So close ..