Help Need a friend

[Unlucked]

Im transgender, I have no friends, my parents have abandoned me. I live alone and off of welfare, im 22. Is there anyone here who can talk to me. Im planning to cbt soon but I just want to talk to someone, anyone. I just want a friend before I go.

 

[dec132013]

You can message me whenever, i work part time and get no social interaction after my shift is over. I'm 19 and also trans

 

[Nymph]

Hi, you can talk to me if you want. I'm 18 from Europe and I'm non binary. I have troubles with my chest area and my parents aren't accepting of binding or top surgery. I plan on ctb ing in the future

 

[builtwrong]

Hey, I'm 20, not trans but open to chatting, homeless right now without much parental support so I don't do much. I'm free pretty often

 

[BPD Barbie]

Hey lovely, my messages are always open if you wanna chat. Same goes to anyone here

 

[TheQ22]

I'd be interested to know how many people here are trans / non binary / some other denomination that i'm too old and dumb to understand.

I apologise for my probable talking with my foot in my mouth, but is it that the world for a trans / etc person is too cruel to live with, or a person hates themselves so much that they want to be the opposite of who they are, the most obvious trait being their biological gender, so they want to be the exact opposite of who they are biologically since then they might be the exact opposite of being unhappy and be happy?

I'm not trying to be dumb, it's just I read a lot of accounts of people who did the trans op thing, and then felt even worse than they did before the op.

Why is this? Is the trans feelings / identity a mask to cover underlying feelings, or is something else happening?

Why do people who have done the trans journey to the end feel bad afterwards?

I'm just trying to understand, I think we're very complicated creatures that don't really understand ourselves?

 

[CuttlefishBeans]

Hey, messages are open if you feel like chatting!

 

[dec132013]

I'd be interested to know how many people here are trans / non binary / some other denomination that i'm too old and dumb to understand.

I apologise for my probable talking with my foot in my mouth, but is it that the world for a trans / etc person is too cruel to live with, or a person hates themselves so much that they want to be the opposite of who they are, the most obvious trait being their biological gender, so they want to be the exact opposite of who they are biologically since then they might be the exact opposite of being unhappy and be happy?

I'm not trying to be dumb, it's just I read a lot of accounts of people who did the trans op thing, and then felt even worse than they did before the op.

Why is this? Is the trans feelings / identity a mask to cover underlying feelings, or is something else happening?

Why do people who have done the trans journey to the end feel bad afterwards?

I'm just trying to understand, I think we're very complicated creatures that don't really understand ourselves?

Can't speak for everyone, but altho i feel a lot better about myself after transitioning, the transphobia you're forced to face can be unbearable. (also transphobic people purposely manipulate statistics, both detransitoning/the suicide rate after transitioning isn't actually as high as they like to make it seem)

 

[marcusuk63]

Don't you just hate lables ? I`m " Bi" and have had and lived with male . female and trans partners (sometimes at the same time lol ) or as i like to call them "people"

 

[TheQ22]

Don't you just hate lables ? I`m " Bi" and have had and lived with male . female and trans partners (sometimes at the same time lol ) or as i like to call them "people"

What do you think about Biplanes?

What do you think about Biplanes?

I think they're kind of like a trisexual?

 

[marcusuk63]

What do you think about Biplanes?

I think they're kind of like a trisexual?

They are good at winging it .

 

[TheQ22]

Great answer!

I couldn't help but think of Ali G and the uncle being a tri-sexual. becuz E sez E will tri anyting sexual. Wat do u tink dat means? Aye?

 

[zeroshark]

hey! feel free to reach out whenever. im also trans and plan on CTB before the end of the year.

I'd be interested to know how many people here are trans / non binary / some other denomination that i'm too old and dumb to understand.

I apologise for my probable talking with my foot in my mouth, but is it that the world for a trans / etc person is too cruel to live with, or a person hates themselves so much that they want to be the opposite of who they are, the most obvious trait being their biological gender, so they want to be the exact opposite of who they are biologically since then they might be the exact opposite of being unhappy and be happy?

I'm not trying to be dumb, it's just I read a lot of accounts of people who did the trans op thing, and then felt even worse than they did before the op.

Why is this? Is the trans feelings / identity a mask to cover underlying feelings, or is something else happening?

Why do people who have done the trans journey to the end feel bad afterwards?

I'm just trying to understand, I think we're very complicated creatures that don't really understand ourselves?

i cant speak for anyone else, but its 100% the personal/societal backlash for me. there was a brief period of time after starting transitioning where it clicked for the first time in my life that i didnt want to die--i could actually envision living a full life and enjoying it. and then one family member with the funds to do so essentially began a public campaign to out me and humiliate me while handing over my information to the local neonazi gang they hang out with (yes, really), another family member slowly withdrew and now openly doesnt care if i live or die, im harassed/was assaulted at my job....its neverending. i often feel like somewhere theres a universe where im allowed to exist without it being this way, but it isnt this one and wont be in my lifetime.

 

[Ghost2211]

I would be happy to be your friend

 

[draw a circle]

you can talk to me anytime, i'm not online often but i'll be sure to check my messages. i'm 21, they/them, kinda boring but will listen and also will ramble. good luck dude

 

[LetzteAusfahrt]

Im transgender, I have no friends, my parents have abandoned me. I live alone and off of welfare, im 22. Is there anyone here who can talk to me. Im planning to cbt soon but I just want to talk to someone, anyone. I just want a friend before I go.

A few days ago I fell in love with a user I don't know in RL. But I really do.

I haven't had a partner in my life and I couldn't pass on my love.

I still have enough of it that I like to give as much as you can take in. A short hi in a PM will open the door for you.

 

[Ayvoia]

Nice to see all the support from everyone up above^^

Don't be afraid to join the chat tab on this site as well, friendly people there too if you wanted to talk in real-time whenever! All the best

 

[Good4Nothing]

LOL

Why is this funny?

 

[Good4Nothing]

LOL

No explanation? Okay...
Post reported for trolling.

 

[degeneratewaste]

I'll be your friend! You can private message me any time & as someone else mentioned above, the general chat tab here has got some lovely people, I benefitted a lot from joining it as I feel similar about having no friends. <3

 

[MiepMoop]

Definitely willing to talk if needed, just drop me a private message.

 

[almost_dead]

No explanation? Okay...
Post reported for trolling.

i was gonna say something after it like u dont need a frend or something but i think i forgot LOL

 

[airboy_a380]

A few days ago I fell in love with a user I don't know in RL. But I really do.

I haven't had a partner in my life and I couldn't pass on my love.

I still have enough of it that I like to give as much as you can take in. A short hi in a PM will open the door for you.

What's the meaning of RL?

 

[almost_dead]

What's the meaning of RL?

real life

 

[airboy_a380]

My pm is open if u need a friend. We all do. The thing sometimes is we have a few chats and then the ones who needed a friend stop responding, so make sure your ready to be a friend back as well. Just my experience.

 

[LetzteAusfahrt]

What's the meaning of RL?

Real Life

 

[cyberlordsumit]

I used be an amazing Friend. now I can't get out of bed, and a screwed up case. But you can find good people here, hit chat anytime and people will be there for you.. good to see many folks coming forward, im jealous uff

 

[elle1811]

Im transgender, I have no friends, my parents have abandoned me. I live alone and off of welfare, im 22. Is there anyone here who can talk to me. Im planning to cbt soon but I just want to talk to someone, anyone. I just want a friend before I go.

I'm available to chat! Anytime!

 

[Amumu]

Hi I would like to chat too
But I don't know how to do it on this site,
if somebody can explain, I'm so dumb

 

[greekyfish10]

i would absolutely love to be your friend! feel free to message me whenever. :)