@GoodPersonEffed
Yeah the lack of acceptance of both the present and the past is something I can empathize with. I hope she breaks through it without too much suffering.
@Nessie
I crave acceptance of who I'm trying to be as affirmation that I'm behaving correctly, but I keep my real tendencies sequestered to the point where I look in the mirror and I'm not sure what I see, because I'm that afraid of being rejected again. My solution? Be louder. Gain more acceptance. Drown yourself out. And if I'm rejected, at least it's because I was being an obnoxious asshole and I was misrepresenting myself, and can even flip the tables on them for being shitty to an obviously fake persona. It wasn't really me. If I'm not, mission accomplished. Either way, I'm not good enough to be anything without faking it, and I don't seek acceptance for the sake of community because I've already forgone that as a possibility, only to bolster my fake ego instead.
I sound like a terrible person but that's because i am one.