Virsus
Member
- Sep 7, 2024
- 9
I will start with a very important clarification in my opinion - I am for choice, I do not condemn those who choose this path, but I have my own opinion on this matter and I want to express it.
Suicide is a way out and a solution to all problems, BUT it is the most extreme and most serious way out of all available.
Before taking such a serious step, you need to weigh all the pros and cons. We do not know for sure what exactly will be waiting for us on the other side. There are many options - Emptiness, Quantum immortality, heaven/hell, reincarnation, fulfillment of our deepest desires in a separate reality and much, much more, there are as many options as you can imagine. I believe that before taking such a risk you need to give yourself time, at least half a year. During this time, a lot can change, the worst thing, in my opinion, is to act impulsively, this threatens not only disability, but also very strong regrets because of your actions.
I wrote half a year? Oh no, your thoughts can change in just a few hours.
I really sympathize with people who took such an important step and regretted it, simply because they did not give themselves time.
No matter how cruel and cynical I sound - many of your problems can be solved if you think about how to solve them (I am not talking about incurable problems).
But I can't speak for everyone. If a person doesn't want to solve their problems, no matter how insignificant they may seem to others - these are their problems and they matter.
I've been in this state for as long as I can remember. I was wondering for a VERY long time whether it was worth it, whether I really wanted this? In the end, having tried everything I could, I came to a sense of serenity after realizing that this was the way out for me, I believe that you should have a similar feeling before you do something irreparable.
I read hundreds of people's stories on this forum even before I registered, many people's problems are related to the "standard" experiences of ordinary people who do not think about suicide, after a while life may become easier.
But in any case, if you really decided that there is no other way out - this is your right and I cannot and will not judge you for this, moreover, I am on your side, I support you.
Relatively healthy people who do not think about suicide see the meaning of life, they will not even come close to understanding what we feel when we make such a decision. I think our world is not only "black", the events in it and in our lives largely depend on us. You can get angry at me for these words, but the world is what we want to see it. Of course, I do not take into account mentally or physically seriously ill people, reality played a cruel joke on them. I am addressing people who act impulsively.
Think it over carefully. I just want to instill in you the idea that you should know what you are doing.
There will probably be many mistakes here, I am writing through a translator and trying to write as clearly as possible, if your eyes burn - forgive me...
Suicide is a way out and a solution to all problems, BUT it is the most extreme and most serious way out of all available.
Before taking such a serious step, you need to weigh all the pros and cons. We do not know for sure what exactly will be waiting for us on the other side. There are many options - Emptiness, Quantum immortality, heaven/hell, reincarnation, fulfillment of our deepest desires in a separate reality and much, much more, there are as many options as you can imagine. I believe that before taking such a risk you need to give yourself time, at least half a year. During this time, a lot can change, the worst thing, in my opinion, is to act impulsively, this threatens not only disability, but also very strong regrets because of your actions.
I wrote half a year? Oh no, your thoughts can change in just a few hours.
I really sympathize with people who took such an important step and regretted it, simply because they did not give themselves time.
No matter how cruel and cynical I sound - many of your problems can be solved if you think about how to solve them (I am not talking about incurable problems).
But I can't speak for everyone. If a person doesn't want to solve their problems, no matter how insignificant they may seem to others - these are their problems and they matter.
I've been in this state for as long as I can remember. I was wondering for a VERY long time whether it was worth it, whether I really wanted this? In the end, having tried everything I could, I came to a sense of serenity after realizing that this was the way out for me, I believe that you should have a similar feeling before you do something irreparable.
I read hundreds of people's stories on this forum even before I registered, many people's problems are related to the "standard" experiences of ordinary people who do not think about suicide, after a while life may become easier.
But in any case, if you really decided that there is no other way out - this is your right and I cannot and will not judge you for this, moreover, I am on your side, I support you.
Relatively healthy people who do not think about suicide see the meaning of life, they will not even come close to understanding what we feel when we make such a decision. I think our world is not only "black", the events in it and in our lives largely depend on us. You can get angry at me for these words, but the world is what we want to see it. Of course, I do not take into account mentally or physically seriously ill people, reality played a cruel joke on them. I am addressing people who act impulsively.
Think it over carefully. I just want to instill in you the idea that you should know what you are doing.
There will probably be many mistakes here, I am writing through a translator and trying to write as clearly as possible, if your eyes burn - forgive me...
