My sister caught me eating tobacco and says she won’t talk to me henceforth ever .

[Parnate]

My sister caught me eating tobacco and she said she will never talk to me ever again. She has caught me before as well . It's very hurtful cause I need her validation a lot . I need to be validated by her and my family. Its hurtful
I don't know what to do .

 

[HereWeGo!]

Eating tobacco? What kind of? Chewing tobacco or what? Btw how old are you?

 

[sadalways]

Not sure what your situation is, but your sister shouldn't really judge you on that if you are an adult. It's your own choice at that point what you choose to do or not. And even then i feel like it's just sibling things to say "i wont talk to you" and then go back to talking a few days later.

 

[33-vertebrae]

If you're always looking for someone external to validate you, you'll be slave to their every whim of opinion.

When they praise you, you'll feel confident and secure; when they chastise you, you'll feel shamed and lost.

You don't need anyone's permission to be yourself or do what you want to do.

 

[SVEN]

Dear Lord, if that upsets her, how grateful she should really be that I'm not her sibling !

 

[CatLvr]

Dear Lord, if that upsets her, how grateful she should really be that I'm not her sibling !

Same. Fuck that shit. No offense, OP, because I used to be just like you. The day I walked away from my ENTIRE family and didn't look back was the beginning of a LOT of good years for me. I wouldn't be here now if it wasn't for my chronic, poorly managed pain issues. I hope you learn to not give a flying fuck what anyone thinks as long as you are happy.