Venting my father left me out of his will

[shiftingtendons]

he has six children and I'm the only one left out. and he can't use the excuse im mentally ill because my twin brother is disabled and neurodivergent too. they just hate me. whatever man i won't need any will when im dead anyways

 

[astr4]

that's so fucking cruel. i'm so sorry this happened to you. what have your siblings said about this?

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i know in some countries you can sue for that kind of stuff but that might be too complicated to deal with. just wanted to mention. i heard a woman was excluded from her parents will for not being a man and she was allowed to sue. but that's more practical advice and obviously doesn't help with the emotional alienation. that's brutal and i'm sorry.

 

[shiftingtendons]

that's so fucking cruel. i'm so sorry this happened to you. what have your siblings said about this?

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i know in some countries you can sue for that kind of stuff but that might be too complicated to deal with. just wanted to mention. i heard a woman was excluded from her parents will for not being a man and she was allowed to sue. but that's more practical advice and obviously doesn't help with the emotional alienation. that's brutal and i'm sorry.

thank you for the advice ill try looking into that, i think it's just because im lgbtqia+ and that counts as a hate crime here in my country

 

[astr4]

im so sorry no one deserves bigoted parents. he's supposed to love you unconditionally, he absolutely failed you and let you down. i hope you know you deserve better. sending you a hug.

 

[Cristian]

thank you for the advice ill try looking into that, i think it's just because im lgbtqia+ and that counts as a hate crime here in my country

I can relate, my being LGBTQIA+ has created issues in my family too.

Is there any possibility your siblings might agree that the will was unfair to you?

 

[shiftingtendons]

I can relate, my being LGBTQIA+ has created issues in my family too.

Is there any possibility your siblings might agree that the will was unfair to you?

i talked to my twin brother and he basically agreed that im a danger to my father's money and ill spend it all recklessly because of my mental illness worth the try at least, i'll try talking to the others