My ex

[ClairyFairy]

If we were in a relationship what he's doing to me would be illegal but we're not so he can literally ruin my life with impunity. I feel like I need to choke myself out. Only to self harm so the feelings in my neck will go. Fml

 

[WornOutLife]

I'm really sorry you're going through this.
Can't you just stop seeing this person? It seems you'd be much better without him in your life.

 

[Dizzy_Dreams]

I'm really sorry you're going through this.
Can't you just stop seeing this person? It seems you'd be much better without him in your life.

You came back?

 

[WornOutLife]

You came back?

Hi, my friend! Yesss I did. I just posted a thread explaining that basically, I can't live without SS because there's nowhere else in which people and I can understand each other so much.

 

[ClairyFairy]

Can't you just stop seeing this person? It seems you'd be much better without him in your life.

We've got kids. He said to me I'm not allowed to stop speaking to him. Well I have. I'm going to see if we can move forward using a contact centre

 

[summers]

We've got kids. He said to me I'm not allowed to stop speaking to him. Well I have. I'm going to see if we can move forward using a contact centre

You are absolutely not required to speak to anyone. If he contacts you, you can press harassment charges and get a restraining order. If there are any health issues with the kids, the physician can call him. If it's school issues, an administrator or counselor can contact him.

No court in any country can force someone to interact with someone.

Edit: I think you may want to leave texting or email as an option if there is an emergency either way. The nice thing about written communication is it's recorded, so there is a record if anything ever needs to be presented to a judge.

 

[ClairyFairy]

Thanks summer x