Venting My ex wants to play Pokemon TCG Again....

[SuicidalCurryBoy]

Lore: https://sanctioned-suicide.net/threads/another-fight-with-ex.230365/#post-3338157

She said the only way she can get over it is if she beat me fair and square.

Naturally, I accepted. Should I let her win and not tell her?
Should I beat her?
What should I do?

I really really wanna get back with her.

I know the stakes aren't that high. But that just makes them feel all the more higher.

 

[whywere]

If I am wrong, my apologies in advance,

If you are asking, I would NOT play any games with her, in fact I would be VERY skeptical about doing anything with her besides being a friend and probably not a close one at that.

I have through the decades had a few gals who either had money or viewed me as a walking atm machine. Either way, it revolved around economics and not feelings. I ran away all the time.

I grew up ULTRA poor, and the last thing ever was to have companionship with someone about money ever.

When you mentioned that she might be an adult child, that to me was not a red flag it was GET THE HELL away now aspect.

I have no family nor friends, no friends because every time the friendship is all about money and buy the new friend(s) things, NOPE! I would rather be by myself then have either to pay or put up with an anchor.

You are a caring and loving soul and please just be careful and not either get burned or worse used.

Walter

 

[ethereal_hobo]

Breakups are hard but it's generally easier when both parties stop communicating and let the healing process happen.

 

[Worndown]

A suggestion from left field, let her go.
You will continually revisit this scene. Different subjects, same problem.