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meddle

meddle

pink floyd is half of my personality
Jan 11, 2024
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the ct results came in. turns out that my sweet girl has lung cancer. she is 17 years old, which is a lot for a cat. so i doubt that anything could be done in her case. tomorrow we are going to the oncologist, but i fear i already know what she will tell me. how am i going to live without her? i love her so much. i dont know what to do
 
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SoLowHollow48

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My condolences. Having to lose a dear friend has never been easy. Come to us and talk if you need to.

We'll always stop by 🫶
 
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Feb 26, 2023
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the ct results came in. turns out that my sweet girl has lung cancer. she is 17 years old, which is a lot for a cat. so i doubt that anything could be done in her case. tomorrow we are going to the oncologist, but i fear i already know what she will tell me. how am i going to live without her? i love her so much. i dont know what to do
I'm so sorry for what's to come. In my experience, there's no death or grief that does not change you to some degree and you may be left with a lingering hopeless and a missing spot where she once was. However, I want to rest assure you that you will find a way to live on without her, as you must(apologies if this is not helpful). I wish you the best and I wish your cat peace. You've given her means of a full life and I'm sure you've loved her lots by the way you speak of her, what better could be asked. If a peaceful passing is possible, I personally believe that's the best you can do for her now but I'll hold onto hope there's a fair chance of remission for her. There are some helpful Facebook groups for people mourning pet loss that can help quite a lot, as community is vital in these moments and they will recognise the gravity and have more insight on what to do moving forward. It's cruel how suffering is inherent and unforgiving in life. I wish you and your cat the best, and wish for a peaceful passing.
 
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