I can't seem to get over my ex. I got a couple of girls asking me out, but I rejected them. Sure I do talk to many, but it doesn't feel right. Its almost feels like I'm cheating on her, which technically I am not though! And today i fvcking had a breakdown or something, I just wanted to talk to her so bad. So I made an insta acc and talked to her....also I posted a poem recitation hoping that she would recognise the voice. She liked the post, but when I talked to her it did not seem like she recognised me. I feel like scum. And no my motive was not to stalk her, its just i really wanted to talk to her. Call me a creep or a stalker or a psychopath whatever you may wish. I already feel like shit....a few months passed without me feeling $-u-e-c-i-d-@-l and then suddenly things went downhill today...oh dear lord, why can't I just move on......why don't I die...
Timothy7dff
Wizard
- Apr 10, 2024
- 661
It's a tough place to be, and sometimes just when you dare to hope you're moving on it all hits you once again. Best wishes getting through this.
Reflection
One last hurrah
- Sep 12, 2024
- 251
I hope you'll be able to get through this man, I've been in the same boat in year now, it's hellish.
If you haven't done anything wrong to her and actually tried your best then I think it's really cruel for her to just dump you like you never mattered, sadly we live in a world where living people with feelings are treated worse than actual things or possessions.
Another thing, what you did on Instagram doesnt make you a creep. People often want someone who only has eyes for them and who loves them yet the moment they dump a person suddenly their acts of love are perceived and labeled as being "obsessive" or "creepy", when they are natural responses, it's just hypocritical in my opinion. I don't think autonomy is enough reason to really hurt a person this much, people should learn to have a moral responsibility for each other.
If you haven't done anything wrong to her and actually tried your best then I think it's really cruel for her to just dump you like you never mattered, sadly we live in a world where living people with feelings are treated worse than actual things or possessions.
Another thing, what you did on Instagram doesnt make you a creep. People often want someone who only has eyes for them and who loves them yet the moment they dump a person suddenly their acts of love are perceived and labeled as being "obsessive" or "creepy", when they are natural responses, it's just hypocritical in my opinion. I don't think autonomy is enough reason to really hurt a person this much, people should learn to have a moral responsibility for each other.
Thank you so much, I really battered myself up for that
Truly it is.....thank you man for reaching out
EmptyEater
Member
- Sep 26, 2024
- 50
Something that has helped me is remembering that heartbreak and drug withdrawal are processed identically in the brain.
Give yourself time.
Give yourself time.
