Discussion MEN, would abundant women make you reconcider?

[esistzeit]

Suppose despite your circumstances, whatever they may be, you had abundant pussy in your life. Like, you could get a different one every single day if you wanted to, and not through money but through sheer talent. And of course it wouldn't be just sex; at a position like that you'd be able to elicit genuine love from them as well.

If you had that life, would you reconcider living?

 

[Downdraft]

Loneliness is the very last thing I feel buddy.

 

[chester]

Suppose despite your circumstances, whatever they may be, you had abundant p**** in your life. Like, you could get a different one every single day if you wanted to, and not through money but through sheer talent. And of course it wouldn't be just sex; at a position like that you'd be able to elicit genuine love from them as well.

If you had that life, would you reconcider living?

I've been through some relationships but the last one loved me so much that I truly started to want to live. Obviously the feeling was mutual. Now she's dead and I no longer care about women. She was the one for me. It happens once in a lifetime.

 

[Darkover]

it's just a small piece of what's required to live a fulfilling life intelligence empathy love morals beliefs, then there is you to consider what do you bring to the table in terms of intelligence empathy love morals beliefs, are you mentally healthy physically healthy nobody wants a damaged heart,

i am physically damaged no amount of p**** can fix that still would ctb because i want to be 100 percent functional as well

 

[blitzk]

no, i don't feel attracted to anyone but 2 people I guess. i masturbate at times (sorry for the term or whatever) just to feel some sort of..pleasure or "happiness" don't like it, but have no choice. I would rather have one person to talk too. no lust, no love, preferrably a friend.

 

[ijustwishtodie]

No, I don't have a sex drive nor do I have a desire to be in a relationship. My reasons for being suicidal are due to life itself and how I'm forced to put in so much effort due to being a human and also how I hate everything about being a human. I hate having to think, having to feel, having to do... I hate it all. Getting women to like me means nothing to me as my issues are with life itself being cruel to me. I don't give a shit about relationships

 

[Reflection]

No, the only one that can make any difference is her, and at this point even thinking about sex makes me sick to my stomach, because I'd often get intrusive thoughts about her being with someone else.

 

[LaVieEnRose]

No. But the right man could possibly. Who knows.

 

[kyhoti]

Nope. I'm over any kind of interpersonal sexual contact. Sex loses it's luster when life in general is not worth living anymore.

 

[pyx]

Suppose despite your circumstances, whatever they may be, you had abundant p**** in your life. Like, you could get a different one every single day if you wanted to, and not through money but through sheer talent. And of course it wouldn't be just sex; at a position like that you'd be able to elicit genuine love from them as well.

the way you described it, yes. so long as i can produce something practically meaningful, i don't care what values i adopt. the starved can't simply rely on good-will alone for producing preferred outcomes.

if i was able to do what you describe, i would consider myself more or less socially fit enough to integrate into society. relationships are substantive markers for the degree of social competency required for full integration. you might call them social proofs

 

[Plato'sCaveDweller]

no. i have no desire for any kind of relationship or even casual sex. even though my body tends to disagree with me, I intellectually recognize that it's something I don't truly desire. it's only a concern when i'm horny. and p***y wouldn't change anything about the way life works, the way the world works, the tragedies of the world, my own struggles and tragedies, the purposeless of life in the universe, and so on (not gonna make this a long paragraph of all the things that philosophically irk me lmao).

it would change nothing for me except i'd have a nicer way to get my rocks off, as i most certainly wouldn't pursue that "genuine love" they may offer.

 

[Unspoken7612]

"Abundant pussy" is not a phrasing I care for.

I'd like to think things would be better if I was in a loving relationship with someone who I admired and respected. Seems quite likely, though, that I would still be depressed. A good relationship statistically leads to five years of improved life satisfaction before the hedonic treadmill kicks in.

 

[maniac116]

Oh God no!!!!
It's hard enough with just one in my life (just kidding!).
I was a drummer in rock bands for many years & had some wild times, groupies & all that stuff.
It actually became depressing. I realized I wanted love, not just sex

 

[destinationlosangel]

Hahaha this is so funny. I think a lot of people on this site would love to experience some love and compassion and maybe in that regard, i think this could be great for a lot of us here. But love cant fix my health issues. Maybe a doctor's love tho

 

[Dr Iron Arc]

That probably might help me but then if that's true then I shouldn't be helped in the first place because of how disgusting of a person that means I am.

 

[maniac116]

Hahaha this is so funny. I think a lot of people on this site would love to experience some love and compassion and maybe in that regard, i think this could be great for a lot of us here. But love cant fix my health issues. Maybe a doctor's love tho

I have a chronic pain disorder myself & just having someone to hear how I feel helps at least in some small way.
And yes, a compassionate caring Doctor does help

 

[Hotsackage]

Ya id be a porn star my name would be Buck Naked

 

[kilowatt]

Pussy is overrated anyway

 

[Moniker]

Lmao what a question. Nah, I don't think abundant sex would really change much. While I won't pretend that I'd hate it, I've got other issues with life beyond lack of sex.

Regarding them actually loving me though, that's a tough one. I think I'd like that a lot, but I'm not sure it'd mean much since I don't think I could reciprocate those feelings. I don't think I've ever loved anyone. I also fear being in a dilemma others find themselves in where you can't ctb on account of hurting people who might care.

 

[destinationlosangel]

I have a chronic pain disorder myself & just having someone to hear how I feel helps at least in some small way.
And yes, a compassionate caring Doctor does help

Hey im so sorry to hear that. Please do DM me if you wanna talk/rant/vent. The last couple years have been challenging for me for this reason. Here's to compassionate, caring docs

 

[-nobodyknows-]

No.

 

[Sunghoon]

Suppose despite your circumstances, whatever they may be, you had abundant pussy in your life. Like, you could get a different one every single day if you wanted to, and not through money but through sheer talent. And of course it wouldn't be just sex; at a position like that you'd be able to elicit genuine love from them as well.

If you had that life, would you reconcider living?

Why would u ask this? lmao Sex isn't everything I hate the stereotype that men only want sex

 

[SolitudeMan]

Yes
Pussy is life

 

[Gstreater]

Nah not really. I don't care much about sex

 

[Rishi Forbes Das]

Suppose despite your circumstances, whatever they may be, you had abundant pussy in your life. Like, you could get a different one every single day if you wanted to, and not through money but through sheer talent. And of course it wouldn't be just sex; at a position like that you'd be able to elicit genuine love from them as well.

If you had that life, would you reconcider living?

If it's genuine love, yes. If it's insincere, just sex, it will be enough for a while.
I was in an intense ldr with someone who killed herself in August. She used to visit this site. No one will ever come close to being as much of a caring human being as her.

But even then, if I had anyone that intimately (sexually and emotionally) close to me rn, I'd reconsider suicide.

As it stands right now, I'm in too much pain from her loss and from having no one to understand or genuinely empathise with this pain.

I don't want a painful lonely life.

 

[esistzeit]

If it's genuine love, yes. If it's insincere, just sex, it will be enough for a while.
I was in an intense ldr with someone who killed herself in August. She used to visit this site. No one will ever come close to being as much of a caring human being as her.

But even then, if I had anyone that intimately (sexually and emotionally) close to me rn, I'd reconsider suicide.

As it stands right now, I'm in too much pain from her loss and from having no one to understand or genuinely empathise with this pain.

I don't want a painful lonely life.

Hey man, my condolences. It must be the worst thing to lose your girl like that. So sorry, man. Stay strong dog.

 

[ringo99]

My wanting to ctb stems from being a failure at virtually everything I've ever attempted to do and having no future. I have severe depression with no money for therapy. Parents who are aged and sick but luckily have relatives to take care of them. No friends to speak of. Mental disorders that are slowly degenerating my memory and cognitive thinking. Women are the last thing on my mind. I don't care even if I had free access to an entire harem of beauty queens. A quick and painless death is the most attractive thing to me right now

 

[skylight7]

Suppose despite your circumstances, whatever they may be, you had abundant pussy in your life. Like, you could get a different one every single day if you wanted to, and not through money but through sheer talent. And of course it wouldn't be just sex; at a position like that you'd be able to elicit genuine love from them as well.

If you had that life, would you reconcider living?

Many rich, famous, powerful men with all the women they wanted have committed suicide. There's your answer.

 

[Davey40210]

Many rich, famous, powerful men with all the women they wanted have committed suicide. There's your answer.

Agree. It's more about how you experience things.

I never had problems getting women. But I have something in me that wants to self destruct after some time of being in a relationship. When I destroyed my last relationship, even though she was so perfect and I loved her so much, I realized history will keep repeating itself and I would be better off dead. I still dream about her and think about her every day, if not every hour.

More girls will not fix that pain.

 

[Valhala]

An abundance of women, never just that one woman whom I sincerely love and want, if she came back to me everything would make sense.