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iloveloving
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- Aug 4, 2024
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We both love each other and want the same things, but I don't think I want to get married so soon. I am 19 and he is 30s. He doesn't want to waste any more time, but I'd like to date him a while before I make such a commitment. I don't think I'm ready but is that really a valid excuse?
I expressed that this change would be scary and he reassured me everything would be alright, and I could continue my studies. I don't understand what exactly I'm afraid of and it's quite pressuring to make a decision soon.
The uncertainty of our marriage soon applies a pressure I cannot handle. It makes me want to CTB. I plan to talk to him more about this in hopes he will understand, and not get the wrong idea about how I feel towards him.
It's not him, it's me.
I expressed that this change would be scary and he reassured me everything would be alright, and I could continue my studies. I don't understand what exactly I'm afraid of and it's quite pressuring to make a decision soon.
The uncertainty of our marriage soon applies a pressure I cannot handle. It makes me want to CTB. I plan to talk to him more about this in hopes he will understand, and not get the wrong idea about how I feel towards him.
It's not him, it's me.