Venting Losing a friend (potentially?)

[Leonszabs]

I have known a specific girl for about 9-10 years, and I think our friendship is about to either significantly negatively change or completely snap like a toothpick. I had some drama associated with her friend/boyfriend, and it is a bit too much to go into because it is a lot of information. I tried my best to explain myself and whatnot, but it seems like, as always, she will take the side of her homophobic bf and her friend that is fake as hell. Is it bad that I don't feel anything? I haven't spoken to her since Friday and at this point, I don't care anymore. For over the past 48 hours I have had fluctuating emotions, and now I am at the point where I just feel nothing. About 9 or 10 years of friendship down the drain over some stupid shit and it literally is so ridiculous. I have dealt with a lot over the past few months, like my dog's cancer spreading and trying to transfer to a new university, and I have no time for this shit. I talked to my other friends, and they agree with me and told me it might be best to just let things fizzle out. Damn. Has anyone here dealt with something similar?

 

[lysergamide]

It's good if you don't feel anything especially after this long a friendship, and by the looks of it… homophobic bf… I mean she can go take a hike right… but I'm one to cut off people easily. I feel but I don't feel a whole lot, unless it's a significant other.

 

[Leonszabs]

It's good if you don't feel anything especially after this long a friendship, and by the looks of it… homophobic bf… I mean she can go take a hike right… but I'm one to cut off people easily. I feel but I don't feel a whole lot, unless it's a significant other.

Yeahhh, so basically in November he got caught saying the f slur for gay people and he also admitted he doesn't listen to Frank Ocean anymore because he found out that he is gay. The ironic thing is that my "friend" is bisexual bruh lmao

 

[lysergamide]

Yeahhh, so basically in November he got caught saying the f slur for gay people and he also admitted he doesn't listen to Frank Ocean anymore because he found out that he is gay. The ironic thing is that my "friend" is bisexual bruh lmao

OH my god she's the weakest link honestly what can I say but bye you were right. She's shady as shit for not grabbing him and telling him she doesn't fuck with that. And fuck her fake ass friend for sticking up with her too what

 

[closetoyou]

your friend is spineless. good on you