Loneliness/friends

[Lydia]

Hey,

Just thought I'd make a thread for people to communicate on that are perhaps feeling lonely/wanting online friends to talk or rant to or whatever.

See how it goes. x


I know what it's like to feel so lonely it's like you're being crushed. So, if loneliness is one of the reasons you're considering ctb then feel free to pop me a message, maybe we could make each other feel less lonely, rant to each other or simply tell me something about your day if you don't have anyone else to tell. x

 

[TheGoodGuy]

It probably would be better if a lot of people joined the disord channel then we all could have a more casual conversation about suicide n stuff instead of in a thread that will die easily just a thought.

 

[Lydia]

It probably would be better if a lot of people joined the disord channel then we all could have a more casual conversation about suicide n stuff instead of in a thread that will die easily just a thought.

Sorry. I don't know what this is, but yes great idea :)

 

[Alchemist]

There's already a discord for anyone who has joined at least 30 days ago and has over 50 posts.

 

[Lydia]

There's already a discord for anyone who has joined at least 30 days ago and has over 50 posts.

I've just been accepted to one now but thank you :)

 

[mk47]

I have absolutely no friends. Sigh

 

[Lydia]

I have absolutely no friends. Sigh

I feel in a similar position at the moment, quite frankly it sucks.

 

[Rachel74]

My friends have 4 legs x

 

[Lydia]

My friends have 4 legs x

Same! Some days that's enough, other days not so much.

 

[Rachel74]

Same! ❤ Some days that's enough, other days not so much.

I agree but they never judge
This is open to anyone if you fancy a chat and feel lonely I'm here for you.

 

[Élégie]

I have absolutely no friends. Sigh

Same.

 

[pole]

even with friends, ill still feel like im alone in the world.

 

[Lethe]

I feel most lonely when I'm around other people.

 

[justanotherday]

I am at a place in life where I isolate myself too much and I do feel lonely. But, maintaining close friendships just takes too much effort for me, and I feel so tired( mentally) from this crazy world. I just don't have it in me to do the work it takes to keep friends. I am just too damned depressed .
I used to have plenty of friends, but I just do not enjoy being around anybody anymore like I used to.
Being on this site is really all I can seem to be motivated to do when it comes to socializing with people.

 

[Throwawaysoul]

Faking it for friends is so exhausting. It was a lot easier in my 20s, I just can't do it anymore.

 

[alexithymia]

I'm terribly lonely too. I've never been able to easily maintain friendships and man, does it wear on you. I start to assume that anyone in my life hates me and my fear of abandonment leads to a self-fulfilling prophecy. I wish my brain would shut up sometimes.

 

[Sweet emotion]

This is a very sweet suggestion but it's never worked for me. I'm physically unable to have friends because I'm sick with Complex Regional Pain Syndrome which is the highest ranking pain condition in medical history. And I've made friends with people over the internet and vented and told stories but it has never been enough to make me want to spend another 14 years in this pain and isolation. To me at the end of the day they're just words on a screen. They don't make up for true personal relationships and leading a normal life where I'm able to go out and have meaningful relationships and a boyfriend or a husband and people I can actually see in person. But I hope for the best for all of you.