it's okay Labyrinth, lolita's also a type of dressing/fashion aesthetic! :) it's very pretty & interesting. thx for looking after the safety of the site though<3
You don't understand what OP is talking about. It's not sussy like that. It's a style of dress and culture that's popular in Japan. Don't jump to assumptions. Words mean different things sometimes.
LOL no not lolita as in vladimir nabokov. Lolita as in the subculture inspired by rococo france and victorian clothing
A much kinder way to reply. Sorry @Labyrinth for being a little snappy. I'm not having a good day, sorry to lash out a little.
heheh yeahhh i was worried this would happen xD so sad the word has such sexual and pedophilic connotations ~_~A much kinder way to reply. Sorry @Labyrinth for being a little snappy. I'm not having a good day, sorry to lash out a little.
I think it's a beautiful hobby and interest. I don't dress lolita, but respect the dedication to a gentle beauty. I also respect your effort to find a method that's equally beautiful. I was thinking a bit about it. Unfortunately it seems like most methods are not aesthetic. Perhaps an SN tea party? (Very potentially messy)
I love the tea party idea very much honestly. I could plan out something around that as I live on my own. Hahah it would feel like a danganronpa death scene. I just pictured it in my head and it was so beautiful.I think it's a beautiful hobby and interest. I don't dress lolita, but respect the dedication to a gentle beauty. I also respect your effort to find a method that's equally beautiful. I was thinking a bit about it. Unfortunately it seems like most methods are not aesthetic. Perhaps an SN tea party? (Very potentially messy)
Maybe hanging? (Potentially very aesthetic, but also high chance of mess)
Possibly CO? Charcoal is messy, but could be handled carefully.
I've honestly never considered aesthetics in my consideration of method. I can see I'll be thinking about it now.
I'm curious if you have irl friends in the fandom (would you call it a fandom)? It's a niche interest. I imagine it could be isolating.
this will look very bad if I dont preface, but I've been a huge Malice Mizer for 5+ years at this point, but I've made barely any attempt to look at the rest of the genre besides Moi Dix Mois (which does not count). As of recently I've really got into the GazettE, so much so I've spent every night until 3am of this month practicing and learning their songs for guitar. I also know abt Versailles, Leraine, Dué le Quartz, and Kaneto Juusei (all very basic picks i know)
If your a metalhead try listening to mejibray and deviloof. Amazing riffs and vocals. Have you seen kami's work outside of malice mizer? His songs make me feel like a marionette :D
Hmmm I don't know how to put this... I want my death to represent my life as well. To die in clothing that I live for someone makes me feel like I will live forever in those clothing. I definitely live everyday for my clothing though. Honestly its a huge form of escapism for me. A beautiful death in beautiful clothing I want everything to be ideal for me because I can only die once
Lolita is a type of japanese street fashion that is influenced by Victorian and Rococo period clothing and styles. It has nothing to do with minors.
Your nice examples make we wonder about starting a thread in off topic. (Not to say that OP posted in the wrong place.) It'd be fun to share fashion that makes us happy. I'd watch that thread, even though I'm not in the community. I get inspiration when people share their special interests.Lolita is a type of japanese street fashion that is influenced by Victorian and Rococo period clothing and styles. It has nothing to do with minors.
This is beautiful! What is it from?
Well, the original story is such, isn't it? Also, your name is "bondage" and the profile pic... Lmao Ican't
firstly I am talking about the lolita subculture, not me as a person. I picked the name "bondage" because I feel bound by societal pressures. The profile expresses my love for body modification. ^-^ But I hope that my love for these things don't portray me sexually. I see it more as art. I like to express my hobbies and interests any way I can.
That seems like such fun! I hope someone does start a jfashion thread in off topic I would love to contribute to it. *-* Or should I start oneYour nice examples make we wonder about starting a thread in off topic. (Not to say that OP posted in the wrong place.) It'd be fun to share fashion that makes us happy. I'd watch that thread, even though I'm not in the community. I get inspiration when people share their special interests.
It does seem the thread has become more about explaining lolita than helping OP with her question. Are there any thoughts you have about the particulars of a potential method @bondage? You mentioned you liked the tea party idea. Maybe you could pour the water like making tea. What sort of things would you like to have around? Would you have a stand-in guest?
Maybe you could have your supplement meds on nice plates, to be taken on schedule. You mentioned you live on your own, so you may be able to stage a grand and beautiful tea party.
Personally, I find it very cathartic to plan my method - even with no specific time in mind. Perhaps spending time planning the details could be soothing for you. I could imagine this to be a nice way to surround yourself with the beautiful things that draw you to the fashion. And maybe perhaps this would be calming for you at the time.
This is beautiful! What is it from?
This genuinely made me laugh, thanks! There's a billion reasons making drowning a suboptimal route (people seeing you, getting to the middle, finding a large enough waterway, and of course drowning itself), but fish? I don't think they even exist anymore, rivers have been so polluted.
Hai! So glad to find another jfashion lover here. I love kamikaze girls so much. I wanted to make a sweet lolita coord before CTB. I would say don't sell your wardrobe if you plan on doing it in your room. Personally, I would want to be surrounded by my favorite things. Seeing the hard work of my collection would give me some peace before I CTB. I relate with you though! One of my previous attempts when the fire department was taking my body out of my room the worker saw an anime poster and told my parents something like "Sigh...its all because of those japanese shows." Now they hate my hobbies as well >_<; Feels hard not being accepted by the person who birthed you but that's just life. I always get jealous of people who have accepting and affectionate families.
