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Vexadin

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Sep 18, 2023
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My gf broke up with me 9 days ago out of nowhere. Everything went well, she felt like a dream. I saw an actual future with her, one i could never have imagined. I just send a text to see if she is willing to go for a walk and to hope we can talk about whatever bothered her.
 
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blckfurmutt

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Dec 24, 2025
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the best thing you can do for yourself right now is distance yourself from her, i know what i'm saying sounds extremely difficult because you just lost the love of your life, and you imagined a future with her. but if there is any chance of getting her back, reaching out wont work. this sounds manipulative but the more silent you stay, and the less you "seem" to care, the more likely they are to come back. stay safe :-)
 
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praythestars

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Jan 11, 2026
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My gf broke up with me 9 days ago out of nowhere. Everything went well, she felt like a dream. I saw an actual future with her, one i could never have imagined. I just send a text to see if she is willing to go for a walk and to hope we can talk about whatever bothered her.
Really sorry to hear that. I hope you get some answers, even if the answer/s might hurt a bit. I'd suggest really sitting down and trying to think of what might have caused her to do that so you can hopefully be a bit prepared/not completely taken aback if she does answer you, so that any shock or surprise doesn't detract from your ability to discuss it if given the chance.
 
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InevitableDeath

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Jan 4, 2026
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Hope it works out for you, but never rely on other people for your happiness as they will always let you down. Always.

Learn to love yourself.
 

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