GarageKarate07
Wizard
- Aug 18, 2020
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KILL THE MONSTER!!
This is one of the thoughts that goes through some of our minds at some point. Some of us see ourselves as evil or bad or a burden. This is always the depression talking but that doesn't mean that there are not valid reasons that we feel that way. We realise that we have treated people in a raw manner because we are upset with ourselves or because past abuse has left us only a shell of a person. I was looking through "narcissistic" traits (because of another recent thread) and I recognized that I and a few others have a few of those traits but also that does not mean that we are necessarily bad. Standing up for yourself and being proud is a good thing. While being abusive is too much of a good thing and leaves us or our loved ones hurt because we couldn't see our actions while they were going on. Again this is the depression. This is the monster that emerges from abuse and simply lack of love sometimes. A good thing to remember is we are all going through hell. The person you hate the most is also going through their version of hell. Such is the way we seem to be living in this world at this time. I'm not saying this as an excuse but I am saying that without deep and understanding conversation with patience and the willingness to hear all sides we can be left blind to the reasons behind the reasons. We are not all bad. This would be a foolish and unkind thing to say not only about ourselves but others as well. Even the people we really hate and believe me I have my own list of "@*%$!#" just like you. There is far more to everyone here and we are complex and sometimes confused because of many many influences. Some of these lessons come swiftly with age as you pay your own rent and live life on the constant "hamster wheel", and some come soon as you parent tells you in a mean way to tie your shoe but then you fall. You might be mad at mom but you fell and learned the hard way. It sucks but we grow from it. My point is I feel in my despair that I only see the MONSTER. I only feel the MONSTER. I only am the MONSTER to my loved ones because of many reasons. In this state of self hating depression I only wish in my CTB that I can and will KILL THE MONSTER!! I want it to die so that I may rest from it. I don't want to be hateful and angry. I don't want to feel as though I am unworthy of love and friendships. I want my loved ones to see past the monster as one of the unfortunate survival skills I leaned to cope with the harsh cold world that I was thrust into. There is far more than just the monster but in killing the monster perhaps we can finally just be and feel human for once. If we had actually healthcare and we lived in a good world we could rid ourselves of this much more easily but this is sadly not that world. I would like to feel like I deserve to smile again. I would like in part to kill that monster. This is one of the greatest reasons some of us choose to make this final decision to CTB and shed that monster we have grown so accustomed to. This may not describe all of us here but I know that it is many of us. We cry because we feel the monster has become so terrible. We only wish it to go away.
I'm am trying my best to cover BOTH sides of hate and love because we really do have the compliments of both. It can be hard but try to remember that not only for yourself but others as well. Also remember that you can get rid of the monster while you are here, but when/if you finally make that decision to gamble it all away, please take the monster with you and let it go on the other side. Be free of the God damned thing. Be free.
This is one of the thoughts that goes through some of our minds at some point. Some of us see ourselves as evil or bad or a burden. This is always the depression talking but that doesn't mean that there are not valid reasons that we feel that way. We realise that we have treated people in a raw manner because we are upset with ourselves or because past abuse has left us only a shell of a person. I was looking through "narcissistic" traits (because of another recent thread) and I recognized that I and a few others have a few of those traits but also that does not mean that we are necessarily bad. Standing up for yourself and being proud is a good thing. While being abusive is too much of a good thing and leaves us or our loved ones hurt because we couldn't see our actions while they were going on. Again this is the depression. This is the monster that emerges from abuse and simply lack of love sometimes. A good thing to remember is we are all going through hell. The person you hate the most is also going through their version of hell. Such is the way we seem to be living in this world at this time. I'm not saying this as an excuse but I am saying that without deep and understanding conversation with patience and the willingness to hear all sides we can be left blind to the reasons behind the reasons. We are not all bad. This would be a foolish and unkind thing to say not only about ourselves but others as well. Even the people we really hate and believe me I have my own list of "@*%$!#" just like you. There is far more to everyone here and we are complex and sometimes confused because of many many influences. Some of these lessons come swiftly with age as you pay your own rent and live life on the constant "hamster wheel", and some come soon as you parent tells you in a mean way to tie your shoe but then you fall. You might be mad at mom but you fell and learned the hard way. It sucks but we grow from it. My point is I feel in my despair that I only see the MONSTER. I only feel the MONSTER. I only am the MONSTER to my loved ones because of many reasons. In this state of self hating depression I only wish in my CTB that I can and will KILL THE MONSTER!! I want it to die so that I may rest from it. I don't want to be hateful and angry. I don't want to feel as though I am unworthy of love and friendships. I want my loved ones to see past the monster as one of the unfortunate survival skills I leaned to cope with the harsh cold world that I was thrust into. There is far more than just the monster but in killing the monster perhaps we can finally just be and feel human for once. If we had actually healthcare and we lived in a good world we could rid ourselves of this much more easily but this is sadly not that world. I would like to feel like I deserve to smile again. I would like in part to kill that monster. This is one of the greatest reasons some of us choose to make this final decision to CTB and shed that monster we have grown so accustomed to. This may not describe all of us here but I know that it is many of us. We cry because we feel the monster has become so terrible. We only wish it to go away.
I'm am trying my best to cover BOTH sides of hate and love because we really do have the compliments of both. It can be hard but try to remember that not only for yourself but others as well. Also remember that you can get rid of the monster while you are here, but when/if you finally make that decision to gamble it all away, please take the monster with you and let it go on the other side. Be free of the God damned thing. Be free.