Sprite_Geist
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- May 27, 2020
- 1,592
...I hate that phrase and anyones like it.
Most of the time I have a neutral expression on my face and some people don't seem to like it; I guess they are under the impression that I'm in a low-mood, and that annoys me. Why can't they leave me alone!
First of all: Just because someone isn't smiling that doesn't mean they are grumpy, depressed or miserable; everyone expresses happiness in different ways. Personally I like to express my own happiness through my actions, like trying to help others, not through my facial expressions. Most of the time I actually am happy, or at least content. The only time I really get angry is when randomers start bossing me about because I'm not wearing a face they like.
Second of all: Even if someone else is in a bad mood... Why does it matter? It doesn't affect you physically and it's not destroying your life. I've had people get offended because I've refused to smile when they tell me - like I'm a horrible person for not doing so. I've been told that I am being "negative" because they perceive me as being unhappy even when I'm not. I literally don't bother anyone; I try to keep out of other peoples way and don't hurt anyone, and yet I still get people going out of their way to make snarky remarks about me!
How am I being negative? Aren't you the one who is negative for judging me based on my facial expression, and insulting me behind my back for no reason? Aren't you the one who is "toxic" for trying to dictate how I should feel and behave, as if my brain isn't my own.
Isn't it ironic how the "positive vibes" and "just smile" crowds can get very aggressive towards anyone who they think is in a bad mood. That doesn't sound very... Positive? They label anyone in a low-mood as giving off "negative vibes", but surely isn't their own anger and hostility towards people who are in a bad mood a form of negativity in and of itself?
Most of the time I have a neutral expression on my face and some people don't seem to like it; I guess they are under the impression that I'm in a low-mood, and that annoys me. Why can't they leave me alone!
First of all: Just because someone isn't smiling that doesn't mean they are grumpy, depressed or miserable; everyone expresses happiness in different ways. Personally I like to express my own happiness through my actions, like trying to help others, not through my facial expressions. Most of the time I actually am happy, or at least content. The only time I really get angry is when randomers start bossing me about because I'm not wearing a face they like.
Second of all: Even if someone else is in a bad mood... Why does it matter? It doesn't affect you physically and it's not destroying your life. I've had people get offended because I've refused to smile when they tell me - like I'm a horrible person for not doing so. I've been told that I am being "negative" because they perceive me as being unhappy even when I'm not. I literally don't bother anyone; I try to keep out of other peoples way and don't hurt anyone, and yet I still get people going out of their way to make snarky remarks about me!
How am I being negative? Aren't you the one who is negative for judging me based on my facial expression, and insulting me behind my back for no reason? Aren't you the one who is "toxic" for trying to dictate how I should feel and behave, as if my brain isn't my own.
Isn't it ironic how the "positive vibes" and "just smile" crowds can get very aggressive towards anyone who they think is in a bad mood. That doesn't sound very... Positive? They label anyone in a low-mood as giving off "negative vibes", but surely isn't their own anger and hostility towards people who are in a bad mood a form of negativity in and of itself?