Amumu
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- Aug 29, 2020
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Not from my parents, not from my friends, not from a girlfriend. I've never heard of these words.
Usually when people tell me they love me, I know things will start going downhill rather quickly. I became allergic to the words.I never had anyone told me "I love you" and actually meant it without any strings attached.
Not from my parents, not from my friends, not from a girlfriend. I've never heard of these words.
here in this forum, WE LOVE YOU. Why?
How true. If someone says that lookout.Usually when people tell me they love me, I know things will start going downhill rather quickly.
Very true, but given that I'm completely starving for affection, it makes me feel goodWhy? Because you will never have to prove or demonstrate your love in any substantial or meaningful way, other than writing feel-good posts to them, since they are a total stranger who you'll never get to see. I like a few people on this forum, but claiming that I "love" anybody would be a definite exaggeration which devalues the meaning of the word. The word itself has become so trivialized and overused that it completely lost its original meaning.
Meditation, if I can't even believe in my dreams, what do I do, what do I do.How true. If someone says that lookout.
Probably but I have neither right nowFeeling loved is more important than words.
Same height, same stuff. I suspect we're really twins now. Strange that I'm three years older than you @sadworldSame... I don't think it would change much tho.
Thank you for you really kind post, pal.OMG you and me are twins! My heart breaks for you. @Amumu , I LOVE YOU, you are a very warm,kind,loving person with so much empathy and I REALLY DO LOVE YOU for that!! You are what makes sanctioned suicide so special. Please always remember that you ahve a global family here that unconditionally loves you!!! All the best to you my global family member! Walter
Thank you too, I'm going to keep suffering for a long time before that unfortunately.I'm sorry you've never heard those words but let me tell you, here in this forum, WE LOVE YOU. Why? because you're one of us. You're suffering just like us and want to find the way out of this world asap.
Wish you the best and you can count on us.
It's worth it princess LilacI'm sorry :(
For what little it's worth (and it's probably not worth anything) I think you're cool and like having you around :T
I don't think my parents ever told me they loved me. Whenever I asked them if they hated me, they'd say: "No, you are our child." But they never said they loved me. I appreciate their honesty, though.I grew up hearing those words as a weapon of manipulation by evil and selfish bullying family members. But twice in my life, I heard a magic phrase which virtually brought tears to my eyes which no family member or other relation in my life has ever come close to saying, "I'm gonna take care of you!," and "We'll take care of you." Those people meant what they said, and delivered on their promises.
The feeling of flooded relief hearing the words assuring me that I would be taken care of remain forever priceless to me. Love, on the other hand, is among the filthiest four letter words in the English language the way it's been ruthlessly used by evil loveless cretins to control me while growing up. It is not part of my vocabulary.
Personally in my family we don't say it... and if we do it's rare. It's an unspoken unconditional thing. My ex-wife and I used to say it and I'm sure at one time it meant something, after 20 years with her... I'm sure they were just words out of habit.Not from my parents, not from my friends, not from a girlfriend. I've never heard of these words.
Sorry to hear that. Everyone human being should be loved. You will be loved on this forum.Not from my parents, not from my friends, not from a girlfriend. I've never heard of these words.