It’s obvious that he’s now dead but could you put your famiky through it - going missing ?

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Adam Seaton: Appeal over 'homebird' son's Southport disappearance
The parents of a missing man whose car was found near marshland have appealed for help finding their "homebird" son.

Adam Seaton, 20, left his home in Melrose Avenue, Southport, on 9 August. His red Ford Fiesta was later found in the car park of the RSPB Marshside nature reserve.

Andrew and Karen Seaton said the Edge Hill University student's disappearance was "absolutely out of character".

Open land searches had been carried out in Sefton, Merseyside Police said.

The 20-year-old is described as 6ft 2in (1.9m) tall and of slim build with brown hair and brown eyes.

He was thought to be wearing a burgundy tracksuit top, black and white T-shirt, blue jeans and burgundy Puma trainers when he disappeared.

Mr Seaton said his son was "very sociable, personable and a real family guy and a bit of a homebird in many ways", adding that there was no indication there was anything wrong with him.

He said the geography student had proposed to do his dissertation "based on research on the marshes" and it was possible he may have been there gathering information.

Mrs Seaton said they knew he made a phone call to a friend and "then the signal was lost", but there were no reported sightings of him getting out of the car at the nature reserve.

Police have asked anyone with relevant information or dashcam footage to get in touch.

 

[Lara Francis]

I know that feeling of wanting to run and disappear as it's what I want to do all the time when it gets tough but if you have a family that cares for you and you feel the same in return, I think it's a bit unfair as it adds to the torment of loosing you and gives false hope.just by ctb will upset them but at least they will have closure to mourn your death.
Off course,if you do not have a good relationship and they are horrid then it could be sweet revenge!. As you wouldn't care about them anyway.

 

[Caustic Cardinals]

my family wont notice or care too long.

 

[Morning Angel]

I know that feeling of wanting to run and disappear as it's what I want to do all the time when it gets tough but if you have a family that cares for you and you feel the same in return, I think it's a bit unfair as it adds to the torment of loosing you and gives false hope.just by ctb will upset them but at least they will have closure to mourn your death.
Off course,if you do not have a good relationship and they are horrid then it could be sweet revenge!. As you wouldn't care about them anyway.

Yeah I guess no one knows if he CTB although it seems like a marshland wouldn't be a typical place to get murdered or abducted. I've read a lot of posts here from people who want to engineer an accident or disappearance and I understand it's mostly they don't want people to know their true motives... but I can't help but imagine this type of outcome where the family doesn't really know what happened exactly.

 

[Deadinside24]

I've wanted for a long time to disappear. Like have a cabin in the woods away from society. Not having to get up every day just to work and scrape by some sort of "living." Hell, who knows, maybe that would cure my depression and anxiety.

Hell, when I ctb, part of me doesn't want to be found either.

Unfortunately, I do feel Lara is right and it would be a lot more difficult on your family depending on the relationship you have. Sigh, it looks like I'll be stuck in this outrageous society until then.

 

[PatKat]

Yea no one will care very long about me. I would be surprised if they even came to get my body...

 

[Gregor samsa]

my family wont notice or care too long.

My family would have no idea and would jot give a damn

 

[Clover]

My friends would notice and I don't want anyone to be searching for me or worried. I would rather people I care for have closure and understanding of what I have done.

 

[MEoDP]

While my death would certainly cause great grief to my family,I have a feeling it won't take too long before they get over it. I'm not exactly the most sociable nor the most competent member in the family. (I'm actually largely dismissed as incompetent to an extent,which I don't mind,because it means I don't get unsolicited responsibilities piled up on me. That's the case with my sister,and she's beginning to really hate it. even asking me to pretend at times that she's at school or that she's busy with something just so she can avoid being given thankless work. lol. I do help her of course,our relationship isn't perfect by any means by we're on good terms)

My death would likely hit my mom the hardest,and that I do worry about. I'm not sure how much it'll affect my dad,he does love me,but he seems to be the type who gets over these things quickly enough. his own father(my grandpa)died recently and he seems to be doing well as of now.