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Kalista
Failed hard to pull the trigger - Now using SN
- Feb 5, 2023
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A few hours ago, a long time online gaming friend has finally decided to stop talking to me because she couldn't handle the thought of me dying. She had become distant and sad about the situation. After I got back from work, I let her know that whether I go through with it or not, feel free to remove me from your friends list because this will always be in the back of my mind -- and so she did. I did feel sadness because I wasn't fully committed as I was a few days ago. I felt sadness because she's someone that I've tried to work our friendship on before. I also felt sad because she's another person that I couldn't safely talk about suicide without affecting her in such a negative way which caused a burned bridge. I get that people have feelings and morals towards such decisions of ending one's life, but I still hoped for her to understand my situation which she couldn't reach. I think about adding her again, but it won't be a good idea at this point since my presence will only affect her in the most negative way.
There was another person before her whom I confided in about my plan. She ended up checking herself in the hospital because her friend had committed suicide a few years ago and it traumatized her. Now she's back and on medication just to deal with the physical and mental impact of the trigger. While she does agree and support that it's each person's choice to be able to end themselves, it still makes her feel the need to protect and encourage life.
Another is a co-worker whom I've gotten very close to, agree to the reasoning, but she still also doesn't want me gone at all. I've already had to lie to her about my plan whenever she would ask because she had threaten to call the cops. So I don't talk about it to her in any level anymore.
Anyone else beyond these three who have come close or do understand are guaranteed against suicide.
So for SS to exist for me and others to spend time in until the chosen end -- it's great to have and be part of. No one and no other place are comfortable enough to talk about what we go through and what we want for ourselves. I really can't talk about suicide outside of this community it seems.
There was another person before her whom I confided in about my plan. She ended up checking herself in the hospital because her friend had committed suicide a few years ago and it traumatized her. Now she's back and on medication just to deal with the physical and mental impact of the trigger. While she does agree and support that it's each person's choice to be able to end themselves, it still makes her feel the need to protect and encourage life.
Another is a co-worker whom I've gotten very close to, agree to the reasoning, but she still also doesn't want me gone at all. I've already had to lie to her about my plan whenever she would ask because she had threaten to call the cops. So I don't talk about it to her in any level anymore.
Anyone else beyond these three who have come close or do understand are guaranteed against suicide.
So for SS to exist for me and others to spend time in until the chosen end -- it's great to have and be part of. No one and no other place are comfortable enough to talk about what we go through and what we want for ourselves. I really can't talk about suicide outside of this community it seems.