Anxieyote
Sobriety over everything else • 30 • Midwest
- Mar 24, 2021
- 445
I spent 6 months talking to someone I met online, and it felt like we were getting closer and closer every time we talked. I started seeing signs that he wasn't that interested in me, but I kept talking to him anyway because I got happy butterflies in my chest whenever we did.
I finally mustered up the courage to tell him that I felt too attached, and I didn't feel comfortable being his friend after he started confiding in me about his dating life.
Guys, we talked literally every night. I haven't had a friend like that since grade school. Where we would both just drop everything we were doing and giggle at stupid memes and YouTube videos together.
I went three years without doing that with anyone, and to imagine losing one of my only sources of happiness is devastating. He'll be able to move on from this with a shrug.
"Eh, I had fun talking to him. Guess it's time to find a new friend."
And I'm sitting here, unable to stand up straight, about to pass out, replaying all of the memories of the times we spent together in my brain. This is so messed up.
I just keep replaying "6 months, 6 months, 6 months, 6 months" over and over in my head. You can't spent that amount of time with someone and not get attached. I can't just not talk to him anymore.
We would video chat and cook together. When he got tired, I would hum songs to help him fall asleep.
That's not nothing. It can't just be nothing. Just silence. Never talking again. Okay.
Corndogs are only 50 cents at Sonic today. Woohoo. I'm so excited. I get to eat them, and then go to my job that I hate for 8 hours. So much to look forward to. So many special memories of eating hotdogs alone in my car.
I finally mustered up the courage to tell him that I felt too attached, and I didn't feel comfortable being his friend after he started confiding in me about his dating life.
Guys, we talked literally every night. I haven't had a friend like that since grade school. Where we would both just drop everything we were doing and giggle at stupid memes and YouTube videos together.
I went three years without doing that with anyone, and to imagine losing one of my only sources of happiness is devastating. He'll be able to move on from this with a shrug.
"Eh, I had fun talking to him. Guess it's time to find a new friend."
And I'm sitting here, unable to stand up straight, about to pass out, replaying all of the memories of the times we spent together in my brain. This is so messed up.
I just keep replaying "6 months, 6 months, 6 months, 6 months" over and over in my head. You can't spent that amount of time with someone and not get attached. I can't just not talk to him anymore.
We would video chat and cook together. When he got tired, I would hum songs to help him fall asleep.
That's not nothing. It can't just be nothing. Just silence. Never talking again. Okay.
Corndogs are only 50 cents at Sonic today. Woohoo. I'm so excited. I get to eat them, and then go to my job that I hate for 8 hours. So much to look forward to. So many special memories of eating hotdogs alone in my car.