Is the partners thread really helpfull?

[ERASED]

I'm asking because now i want someone to help assist in my CTB. Has anyone had any luck finding soneone who is legit?

 

[Living sucks]

Assist as in help you die?

 

[idontwannadothisanym]

I've failed gazillions of times but now I've found people so just keep trying

 

[GoodPersonEffed]

Seems it was helpful for @idontwannadothisanym. Just be aware it's more often helpful for people who want help learning methods just to end up ctb'ing alone, or want someone else to provide them resources, or who are emotional, sexual, or violent predators.

To me, the thread is like a playground. There's other kids, there's equipment, and there are also kids who weren't raised right and will steal your toys; stray animals just there to scavenge and who haven't had their vaccinations; short adults dressed up like kids and wtf are they doing there; and evil ice cream truck drivers. There's no playground monitor, so play at your own risk, and remember what you've learned about Stranger Danger: if you notice one, scream loudly, run, and sound the alarms. Far better to risk being wrong and embarrassed, than to give one the benefit of the doubt and learn what they're after.

 

[SSlostallhope]

Personally, havent had much luck. But haven't been here very long I guess is why

 

[ERASED]

Assist as in help you die?

Yes

Seems it was helpful for @idontwannadothisanym. Just be aware it's more often helpful for people who want help learning methods just to end up ctb'ing alone, or want someone else to provide them resources, or who are emotional, sexual, or violent predators.

To me, the thread is like a playground. There's other kids, there's equipment, and there are also kids who weren't raised right and will steal your toys; stray animals just there to scavenge and who haven't had their vaccinations; short adults dressed up like kids and wtf are they doing there; and evil ice cream truck drivers. There's no playground monitor, so play at your own risk, and remember what you've learned about Stranger Danger: if you notice one, scream loudly, run, and sound the alarms. Far better to risk being wrong and embarrassed, than to give one the benefit of the doubt and learn what they're after.

Wow thanks. Yeah it does seem enter at your own risk there.

I've failed gazillions of times but now I've found people so just keep trying

Thanks

 

[Living sucks]

Yes

Well that's against the rules of the partner thread. And if you find someone willing to kill you or assist you, they are most likely not the dear soul you're thinking they'd be.
most likely you're getting yourself set up for a nasty ride before you end up dead.

i connected with a few "seemingly" good like minded people but the logistics weren't doable. And in discussing it, decided I couldn't take someone else with me.

finding someone to ctb with, might be possible. But it's rare.

 

[ERASED]

Well that's against the rules of the partner thread. And if you find someone willing to kill you or assist you, they are most likely not the dear soul you're thinking they'd be.
most likely you're getting yourself set up for a nasty ride before you end up dead.

i connected with a few "seemingly" good like minded people but the logistics weren't doable. And in discussing it, decided I couldn't take someone else with me.

finding someone to ctb with, might be possible. But it's rare.

But I thought the whole point of the partner's thread was for assist. I'm confused now.

 

[AnxietyAttack44]

But I thought the whole point of the partner's thread was for assist. I'm confused now.

Partners are not here for kill assist but to maybe go with us as comfort from loneliness. Not to kill us.
I havent found those willing to kill me yet tho

 

[Acerakis]

But I thought the whole point of the partner's thread was for assist. I'm confused now.

I think what they are getting at is that its for finding someone who also wants to die, not finding someone to kill you.

I dunno, the whole thing sounds like a way of getting kidnapped and tortured on the off chance someone actually met someone else on there.

 

[ERASED]

I think what they are getting at is that its for finding someone who also wants to die, not finding someone to kill you.

I dunno, the whole thing sounds like a way of getting kidnapped and tortured on the off chance someone actually met someone else on there.

Yeah I've been thinking about someone taking me out.

Partners are not here for kill assist but to maybe go with us as comfort from loneliness. Not to kill us.
I havent found those willing to kill me yet tho

Ok i understand now.

 

[Fragile]

But I thought the whole point of the partner's thread was for assist. I'm confused now.

I'ts not about assist, it's more about finding someone who is willing to die with you.

you should be the one who does the research and acquires the method anyway, there's tons of info here and on many other places and that thread is a very mixed bag of a few success cases, tons of disappointments/changes of hearths and some horror stories.
I'ts up to you, but if you are not lucky then you'll most likely find someone who's there only to take advantage of you. and it takes a particularly evil kind of person to be willing to kill you for no other reason, are you sure that you want to open yourself to that?

 

[Acerakis]

Yeah I've been thinking about someone taking me out.

So you want someone to murder you? I would think long and hard about trusting the sort of person who would offer to do that. Would you really trust someone who apparently enjoys killing people to be quick and painless? To not just kidnap you and submit you prolonged torture? The world is filled with terrible people who would just love to take advantage of people who have lost all hope.

 

[NorthernStar]

I'ts not about assist, it's more about finding someone who is willing to die with you.

you should be the one who does the research and acquires the method anyway, there's tons of info here and on many other places and that thread is a very mixed bag of a few success cases, tons of disappointments/changes of hearths and some horror stories.
I'ts up to you, but if you are not lucky then you'll most likely find someone who's there only to take advantage of you. and it takes a particularly evil kind of person to be willing to kill you for no other reason, are you sure that you want to open yourself to that?

I don't agree with that. I'd help people with SN or anything chemistry-related because I believe in having the choice. I wouldn't be able to do hanging or drowning though because something within me would try to rescue them. Not sure why those methods are different. Possibly because I used to be a lifeguard but I couldn't let someone drown. But I'd help someone rationally choose to use Stan's method

 

[Fragile]

I don't agree with that. I'd help people with SN or anything chemistry-related because I believe in having the choice. I wouldn't be able to do hanging or drowning though because something within me would try to rescue them. Not sure why those methods are different. Possibly because I used to be a lifeguard but I couldn't let someone drown. But I'd help someone rationally choose to use Stan's method

helping someone choose SN is way different from the horror stories that have happened on the partners thread, a woman from this forum found someone willing to kill and torture her, that was the kind of thing that I was referring to.

my point was that the person who wants to die should be the one responsible for it and do the research themselves, not only is the partners thread unreliable, it can also be dangerous for both parties involved.

 

[NorthernStar]

helping someone choose SN is way different from the horror stories that have happened on the partners thread, a woman from this forum found someone willing to kill and torture her, that was the kind of thing that I was referring to.

my point was that the person who wants to die should be the one responsible for it and do the research themselves, not only is the partners thread unreliable, it can also be dangerous for both parties involved.

Fair. I misunderstood your meaning - I agree with you.

 

[MaisieWilliamsLover]

To be quite Frank the partners megathread has been a terrible experience for me. I have met two people on their both claiming to be very serious and both promising the same nonsense. Being 500% sure. Knowing for sure they want to die and that they are safe to invest the time and energy into. Both Partners despite their zealous insistence that they are exactly what I'm looking for backed out on me at the last minute after wasting vast amounts of time and energy on each one of them. So rather than complaining about what other people do I've decided just to create my own plan to go solo but still look for a serious partner. From my experience on the partners megathread you were likely to get flaked out on no matter how much the person insist they are sure.

So you want someone to murder you? I would think long and hard about trusting the sort of person who would offer to do that. Would you really trust someone who apparently enjoys killing people to be quick and painless? To not just kidnap you and submit you prolonged torture? The world is filled with terrible people who would just love to take advantage of people who have lost all hope.

You're not likely to find any sane person that's willing to kill you in a plan that the two of you have set up together. The only person that would accept this offer would be a nutcase that's not with reality or some kind of psychopath that you're not likely to find and wouldn't want to even if you cud

 

[virginiawoolf86]

I'm looking for someone to just be there as well as make sure that things go as planned. It's probably a heavier burden than people are willing to admit, but an honorable one.

 

[Vault of Memories]

Personally, I kept getting messages from people who lived on the opposite side of my country, so I haven't had much luck with it. Also had people who immediately wanted to take our conversation off the PMs of this site to texting, which I was reasonably skeptical of giving them my info.

 

[MaisieWilliamsLover]

I dont think it is fair to be too critical of the partner thread. I believe it is a complicated thing and easier said than done to find a person who is on exactly the same page at the same time as oneself and wishes to end their life. It's a very risky and unreliable venture. Its unrealistic to expect things to go smoothly.

 

[Meditation guide]

If there is one thing I've learned in my long life it's this: Never count on anyone for anything. They are going to either let you down, or mess you up really good. Do everything yourself, especially something this big and important.

 

[AlreadyGone]

I believe that for some, the "idea" of having a partner for ctb is appealing, but once it becomes time to actually set plans into motion, they will back out. For this reason, I would not want to rely on someone else for ctb.