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pinkywinkydinky
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- May 31, 2024
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I'm not sure if I'm doing this post properly, and I think the title isn't exactly what I mean, but this community seems to be the one place that feels like they'd understand me.
I have a solid plan. It's been years in the making, and the deadline I've given myself ages ago is coming up. However, I've decided that the only thing that's going to stop me is if someone ends up choosing me, platonically or romantically, because I've never been first in someone's life and it's all I've ever wanted to be.
Every time I try to explain that this is how I feel, I get called stupid and that my priority shouldn't be another person.
I don't think they understand that I've been trying to live for myself for so long that I've run out of reasons to. I am so lonely. I need another experience in my life, another person, if I want anything to be different. If someone actually prioritises me for once, I feel like I would have a reason to stay because they would be the reason. The thought that someone willingly chose me over anyone else would make me believe I have some purpose here.
Does anyone get me on this?
I have a solid plan. It's been years in the making, and the deadline I've given myself ages ago is coming up. However, I've decided that the only thing that's going to stop me is if someone ends up choosing me, platonically or romantically, because I've never been first in someone's life and it's all I've ever wanted to be.
Every time I try to explain that this is how I feel, I get called stupid and that my priority shouldn't be another person.
I don't think they understand that I've been trying to live for myself for so long that I've run out of reasons to. I am so lonely. I need another experience in my life, another person, if I want anything to be different. If someone actually prioritises me for once, I feel like I would have a reason to stay because they would be the reason. The thought that someone willingly chose me over anyone else would make me believe I have some purpose here.
Does anyone get me on this?