Is it okay to be a chubby femboy?

[Xiaomi]

I've been debating whether to continue being a femboy or not. I'm scared that people might think that I'm too fat or something. At the same time, being a femboy gives me an identity, a sense of belonging and makes me happy.

What do you think about chubby femboys?

 

[AnestheticVoid]

Idk. It's certainly a niche.

 

[waitingforrest]

I think they are cool. A femboy is a femboy no matter the size. And if people judge you, know that at least you are doing what makes you happy and those people are probably hiding parts of their true self just to conform.

We will all die in the end, although judgement hurts, I would rather die doing what I love rather than be like everyone else.

 

[Bootleg Astolfo]

 

[chocolatebar]

It's always ok to be yourself

 

[NearlyIrrelevantCake]

Huggable, soft femboys best femboys ♥

 

[InezSerrano]

I've been debating whether to continue being a femboy or not. I'm scared that people might think that I'm too fat or something. At the same time, being a femboy gives me an identity, a sense of belonging and makes me happy.

What do you think about chubby femboys?

Would you care to share your BMI? I know that many people have different considerations of what is "too fat." I myself feel too fat a lot. I've never been fat, at least medically, and a lot of people prefer how I look at say 23 BMI now to how I look at say 19.

If you're AMAB and trying to look feminine, especially if you're on HRT, a bit of fat can help (it hides your male bone structure).

I am not a femboy and I'm not really into this at all, I am a person that has used their body to gain male attention online and offline, so it's sort of similar, but I'm not a femboy, so maybe you know more about all of this than I do.

I personally think the best BMI is somewhere between 19 and 21, but IDK. There are of course some underweight people that look really good, and maybe some overweight people. I'm also a bit brainwormed by "thinspo" as some would call it.

Anyways... The point is I think you can find people into any body type, if you are trying to maximize the amount of attention you can get online? I'd stick to the middle of the BMI range. It's also better for your health.

 

[Xiaomi]

Would you care to share your BMI? I know that many people have different considerations of what is "too fat." I myself feel too fat a lot. I've never been fat, at least medically, and a lot of people prefer how I look at say 23 BMI now to how I look at say 19.

If you're AMAB and trying to look feminine, especially if you're on HRT, a bit of fat can help (it hides your male bone structure).

I am not a femboy and I'm not really into this at all, I am a person that has used their body to gain male attention online and offline, so it's sort of similar, but I'm not a femboy, so maybe you know more about all of this than I do.

I personally think the best BMI is somewhere between 19 and 21, but IDK. There are of course some underweight people that look really good, and maybe some overweight people. I'm also a bit brainwormed by "thinspo" as some would call it.

Anyways... The point is I think you can find people into any body type, if you are trying to maximize the amount of attention you can get online? I'd stick to the middle of the BMI range. It's also better for your health.

Lol I just checked it and it's in the 20s range. I should probably just wear oversized clothes.

 

[InezSerrano]

Lol I just checked it and it's in the 20s range. I should probably just wear oversized clothes.

In my personal opinion, if you're trying to be sexy or whatever (my assumption for femboys), clothes that fit are better than oversized clothes. Oversized clothes generally are going to hide your figure. If there are aspects of your body you don't like you can find ways to hide them and highlight the parts you like, but that usually doesn't include becoming a human tent.

This of course assumes you are wearing clothes at all, why bother when you can just take nudes. (Again assuming this is mostly for pictures online for attention since that's most of the femboy stuff I see, not everyday styling. I don't have much advice on being a femboy 24/7, since boys/guys wearing that sort of thing in public isn't generally accepted in the majority of cultures, I assume it isn't the case.)

Edit: Also if you're overweight and want to change that, or even just want to lose weight in general, it's probably a good idea to talk to your doctor about it and get advice from them. If you're willing to make some changes to your lifestyle, it's not *that* hard to lose weight. I know you aren't asking for weight loss advice, so only read the next part if you're interested.

My general recommendations would be: the only way to lose weight is to consume less calories than your body burns. One way to do that is to eat less, another way to do that is to burn more (exercise), you can also do both. The best way to keep track of how much you eat and eat less is to use a food scale to calculate calories, you can also use other methods but they are less accurate. I would calculate your BMR/TDEE (you can find tools to do this easily online) and then eat like 500 kcal less than that. A few other tips for eating less: if you drink sugary drinks, stop doing that. Drinking water can suppress appetite, and food high in fiber may be especially satiating. Also, another thing to note is that if you're weighing yourself a lot its normal for your weight to fluctuate a lot within a day, if you want to limit that you can make sure to do it at the same time/in the same situation every day. (if you always do it before you shower or when you wake up or after you have lunch or whatever, just keep it consistent if you want less variance).

 

[Xiaomi]

In my personal opinion, if you're trying to be sexy or whatever (my assumption for femboys), clothes that fit are better than oversized clothes. Oversized clothes generally are going to hide your figure. If there are aspects of your body you don't like you can find ways to hide them and highlight the parts you like, but that usually doesn't include becoming a human tent.

This of course assumes you are wearing clothes at all, why bother when you can just take nudes. (Again assuming this is mostly for pictures online for attention since that's most of the femboy stuff I see, not everyday styling. I don't have much advice on being a femboy 24/7, since boys/guys wearing that sort of thing in public isn't generally accepted in the majority of cultures, I assume it isn't the case.)

Edit: Also if you're overweight and want to change that, or even just want to lose weight in general, it's probably a good idea to talk to your doctor about it and get advice from them. If you're willing to make some changes to your lifestyle, it's not *that* hard to lose weight. I know you aren't asking for weight loss advice, so only read the next part if you're interested.

My general recommendations would be: the only way to lose weight is to consume less calories than your body burns. One way to do that is to eat less, another way to do that is to burn more (exercise), you can also do both. The best way to keep track of how much you eat and eat less is to use a food scale to calculate calories, you can also use other methods but they are less accurate. I would calculate your BMR/TDEE (you can find tools to do this easily online) and then eat like 500 kcal less than that. A few other tips for eating less: if you drink sugary drinks, stop doing that. Drinking water can suppress appetite, and food high in fiber may be especially satiating. Also, another thing to note is that if you're weighing yourself a lot its normal for your weight to fluctuate a lot within a day, if you want to limit that you can make sure to do it at the same time/in the same situation every day. (if you always do it before you shower or when you wake up or after you have lunch or whatever, just keep it consistent if you want less variance).

Thank you for your advice.

 

[GentleJerk]

What is a femboy? I mean in your definition. I searched it and some say it means a boy who is feminine, others say it's another word for tomboy, which is used to describe a masculine woman... Is a femboy just an androgynous person? I'm confused.

 

[InezSerrano]

What is a femboy? I mean in your definition. I searched it and some say it means a boy who is feminine, others say it's another word for tomboy, which is used to describe a masculine woman... Is a femboy just an androgynous person? I'm confused.

A femboy is like the male version of tomboy. It's a femine boy. Sometimes it's just a twink wearing a skirt or something like that, other times they're closer to transgender woman, and take hormones and stuff to be more feminine physically. Most identify as boys but some don't. I wouldn't consider someone who identifies as a woman to be a femboy, but I think someone who is non-binary could be. Here are a few examples of people I would consider femboys

 

[Xiaomi]

 

[InezSerrano]

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Based femboy poster, LOL. (for those interested, this is cosplayer DazeandAze).

 

[GentleJerk]

A femboy is like the male version of tomboy. It's a femine boy. Sometimes it's just a twink wearing a skirt or something like that, other times they're closer to transgender woman, and take hormones and stuff to be more feminine physically. Most identify as boys but some don't. I wouldn't consider someone who identifies as a woman to be a femboy, but I think someone who is non-binary could be. Here are a few examples of people I would consider femboys

Oh, I think I understand now. Thank you.

OP the question you are asking, 'is it okay', has to do with the opinions of others, most likely the opinions of other femboys themselves? A group who might commonly conform to a specific image? This whole thing seems to revolve around a freedom of expression, so if any other femboys imply that it's not okay for you to be a femboy because you are chubby, that's laughable, and if the person is not a femboy then it's even more laughable.

 

[Xiaomi]

I'm giving myself until December to look as good as possible..

 

[Kristicide]

Be whatever you want to be. Fuck what everyone thinks. That's their problem. If you want to be a chubby femboy I support it.

 

[come to dust]

Personally, I am most attracted to chubby guys who are fat or obese. I don't care too much about masc or fem either way, though I'm interested in people who are clearly and comfortably men and male identifying.

 

[Green Destiny]

Nothing wrong with being a Femboy. Be you Baby.

 

[Angst Filled Fuck Up]

In my personal opinion, if you're trying to be sexy or whatever (my assumption for femboys), clothes that fit are better than oversized clothes. Oversized clothes generally are going to hide your figure. If there are aspects of your body you don't like you can find ways to hide them and highlight the parts you like, but that usually doesn't include becoming a human tent.

This of course assumes you are wearing clothes at all, why bother when you can just take nudes. (Again assuming this is mostly for pictures online for attention since that's most of the femboy stuff I see, not everyday styling. I don't have much advice on being a femboy 24/7, since boys/guys wearing that sort of thing in public isn't generally accepted in the majority of cultures, I assume it isn't the case.)

Edit: Also if you're overweight and want to change that, or even just want to lose weight in general, it's probably a good idea to talk to your doctor about it and get advice from them. If you're willing to make some changes to your lifestyle, it's not *that* hard to lose weight. I know you aren't asking for weight loss advice, so only read the next part if you're interested.

My general recommendations would be: the only way to lose weight is to consume less calories than your body burns. One way to do that is to eat less, another way to do that is to burn more (exercise), you can also do both. The best way to keep track of how much you eat and eat less is to use a food scale to calculate calories, you can also use other methods but they are less accurate. I would calculate your BMR/TDEE (you can find tools to do this easily online) and then eat like 500 kcal less than that. A few other tips for eating less: if you drink sugary drinks, stop doing that. Drinking water can suppress appetite, and food high in fiber may be especially satiating. Also, another thing to note is that if you're weighing yourself a lot its normal for your weight to fluctuate a lot within a day, if you want to limit that you can make sure to do it at the same time/in the same situation every day. (if you always do it before you shower or when you wake up or after you have lunch or whatever, just keep it consistent if you want less variance).

That fuzzy text is so neat, how do you do that?

 

[miserableforever]

I've been debating whether to continue being a femboy or not. I'm scared that people might think that I'm too fat or something. At the same time, being a femboy gives me an identity, a sense of belonging and makes me happy.

What do you think about chubby femboys?

To be honest, I've never really met a femboy in person.
Do what makes your heart happy and what keeps the negative feelings away as far as possible.
Some people are chubby, some aren't.
I have a daughter who dates both genders and she is battling anorexia. I'd rather see her with more weight on and healthy.

 

[Sherri]

Be proud of you are, it's ok to be anything in this world. Diversity is the key to break barriers.

 

[InezSerrano]

That fuzzy text is so neat, how do you do that?

Click the three dots after the bold and italics buttom in the text editor and select the mask icon
like this

or type: [ISPOILER]like this[/ISPOILER]

 

[lostundead]

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Finally some competition for women. They had a monopoly for way too long.

 

[InezSerrano]

Finally some competition for women. They had a monopoly for way too long.

Maybe not "femboys" exactly, but as long ago as ancient Greece there were are at least cute twinks (or more accurately, cute ephebes).

"Nero's wife, Poppaea Sabina, died in 65 CE. This was supposedly in child birth, although it was later rumored Nero kicked her to death. In the beginning of 66, Nero married Statilia Messalina. Later that year or in 67, he married Sporus, who was said to bear a remarkable resemblance to Poppaea.

Nero had Sporus castrated,and during their marriage, Nero had Sporus appear in public as his wife wearing the regalia that was customary for Roman empresses. He then took Sporus to Greece and back to Rome, making Calvia Crispinilla serve as "mistress of the wardrobe" to Sporus, epitropeia ten peri estheta. Nero had earlier married another freedman, Pythagoras, who had played the role of Nero's husband; now Sporus played the role of Nero's wife. Among other forms of address, Sporus was termed "Lady", "Empress", and "Mistress". Suetonius quotes one Roman who lived around this time who remarked that the world would have been better off if Nero's father Gnaeus Domitius Ahenobarbus had married someone more like the castrated boy."

I guess this is pretty close to a femboy...