Discussion Is Inceldom a reason to rope ?

[EmptyMan]

Imagine being too ugly to experience love

 

[Brick In The Wall]

Everyone has their own reasons honestly. It's not anyones place to tell you otherwise. This is a cruel world when it comes to looks, wealth, or status. People are definitely fake as fuck and will look for reasons to judge you regardless of your situation.

 

[6ixxy]

Inceldom? Assuming you mean being involuntary celibate, just like @Brick In The Wall said, it's each to their own, you don't need any justification for wanting to die whatsoever. If you feel a certain way, then so be it, don't let anyone else dictate or tell you otherwise.

 

[Final Escape]

I can think of so many reasons to ctb. I guess it depends how badly this is hurting u and obviously a lot. I don't know what I could say to try to shift your perspective because even though I have experienced everything u aren't it hasn't worked out for me. If you are a young guy one thing u can do is work on becoming successful at something that can make u become more attractive to the opposite sex. Usually the nerdy guys don't win at life and find women till they get a bit older and established. Ok I don't think I have ever experienced true love because I navigated dating wrong and so my relationshits ended badly. I've never had a real relationship where it was harmonious and functioning.

 

[Mr2005]

I thought you'd misspelled rape

 

[k75]

I thought you'd misspelled rape

I snorted my coffee thanks to that.

 

[snorli]

I thought you'd misspelled rape

Wish the laughing emoji was still here .

 

[k75]

Well hopefully it's obvious ( now) I meant nothing malicious to any person here, but I don't regret my post. I'm also not trying to make a statement. Unless that statement is that if you want to be loved, there's always a chance. It's just not likely to be fast.

 

[Brick In The Wall]

Well hopefully it's obvious ( now) I meant nothing malicious to any person here, but I don't regret my post. I'm also not trying to make a statement. Unless that statement is that if you want to be loved, there's always a chance. It's just not likely to be fast.

Boom, some fast love on that post. You're all good! The term has garnered negative connotations through the years. But that has no validity on its meaning, love is a pain in the arse regardless of your situation.

 

[Âmemalheureuse]

It's one of the reasons that give me permanent suicidal thoughts. It's not the MAIN reason but being unloved by the other gender impact my psychological sanity. For me, loneliness, lack of social skills and extreme social anxiety are the main reasons to rope.

 

[Sensei]

It's one of the reasons that give me permanent suicidal thoughts. It's not the MAIN reason but being unloved by the other gender impact my psychological sanity. For me, loneliness, lack of social skills and extreme social anxiety are the main reasons to rope.

You're not alone in this here. There are many good people here who can give you advice on this. They might not be able to present a solution, but they will try to help you. If you feel comfortable with it, you can start a thread about your situation.

 

[Âmemalheureuse]

You're not alone in this here. There are many good people here who can give you advice on this. They might not be able to present a solution, but they will try to help you. If you feel comfortable with it, you can start a thread about your situation.

Thanks for the advice bro. I'll start a thread about my situation.

 

[Sensei]

Thanks for the advice bro. I'll start a thread about my situation.

No problem. For better or worse, we're all in this together.

 

[KiraLittleOwl]

I have been completely alone until 27. That sucked a lot. A LOT.
Then I met a girl, but with the wrong body sex felt wrong and also I am not a lesbian, never really enjoyed it during the years when we were together. It was like once in three months maybe.
Then I transitioned and start meeting with men. WOW, now I get that sex can be great.
But now after botched plastic surgery I am too insecure and depressed to do that anymore
"Want to die but horny"

 

[ForeverDefective]

I have been completely alone until 27. That sucked a lot. A LOT.
Then I met a girl, but with the wrong body sex felt wrong and also I am not a lesbian, never really enjoyed it during the years when we were together. It was like once in three months maybe.
Then I transitioned and start meeting with men. WOW, now I get that sex can be great.
But now after botched plastic surgery I am too insecure and depressed to do that anymore
"Want to die but horny"

What happened with surgery?
I am considering getting facial feminization surgery but don't think I will get the chance for financial reasons.

Whenever anyone says "inceldom" it is automatically associated with entitled murderous manbabys even though its not what the term itself means, would be better to just say "cant find a sexual partner".

 

[TAW122]

Any reason is a valid reason and I don't believe that there is really just a "bad" or "invalid" reason. Some things for others may be tolerable, but the same cannot be said for everyone else or even said "individual". So with that said, yes I believe that if your suffering is due to something that you cannot change or control and is in fact, negatively impacting your life such that it is unbearable, then I don't think that others should decide that your suffering wasn't enough. Everyone has different tolerance levels and limits for suffering, therefore, if inceldom is too much for you, then that reason is enough for you and you need not justify it for anyone.

 

[RealLostSoul]

Any reason is a valid reason and I don't believe that there is really just a "bad" or "invalid" reason. Some things for others may be tolerable, but the same cannot be said for everyone else or even said "individual". So with that said, yes I believe that if your suffering is due to something that you cannot change or control and is in fact, negatively impacting your life such that it is unbearable, then I don't think that others should decide that your suffering wasn't enough. Everyone has different tolerance levels and limits for suffering, therefore, if inceldom is too much for you, then that reason is enough for you and you need not justify it for anyone.

Kind of true but I would specify it to any reason that makes you suffer on a level that you can not deal with or change. You said that, I know, 'Inceldom' however is something that is mostly only about sexual validation, which you can definitely change unless you are really severely disfigured or so.

 

[Sensei]

Any reason is a valid reason and I don't believe that there is really just a "bad" or "invalid" reason. Some things for others may be tolerable, but the same cannot be said for everyone else or even said "individual". So with that said, yes I believe that if your suffering is due to something that you cannot change or control and is in fact, negatively impacting your life such that it is unbearable, then I don't think that others should decide that your suffering wasn't enough. Everyone has different tolerance levels and limits for suffering, therefore, if inceldom is too much for you, then that reason is enough for you and you need not justify it for anyone.

I certainly agree that no one has the right to decide whether your suffering justifies suicide or not. It's impossible to really know how badly a fellow human being is suffering. However, I'm going to play the devil's advocate and disagree with you when you say that suffering is due to something that you can't change or control. It may as well be something you mistakenly think you can't change or control. I'd say that the problems of the big majority of the members of this forum can be changed or controlled. It can definitely be very difficult for people suffering from chronic or terminal illnesses, older people, or people suffering from PTSD; then it's more a queston of learning how to cope with the situation. The situation for the rest can be changed or controlled, at least in theory. Sometimes, moving to another city, avoiding destructive people, doing minor plastic surgery, using self-medication, doing meditation, excercising, or something else can be enough to alleviate the situation and allow for another shot at life. There's no use denying that the situation sometimes literally can be hopeless for a person, but I'd say that in most cases, it isn't.