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WiltedSoul
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- Feb 21, 2022
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I'm in a lot of communities for NEETs and miserable people in general because I'm desperate for human interaction, but can't stand normal/well adjusted people. Males tend to outnumber females by far.
And men complain about how women don't want them because they're ugly, short, not confident, poor, whatever, and they're going to die alone because of it, all of that jazz. Whenever I used to see this, I'd immediately think "that's not true" because, you know, it's probably really not.
But then I realized they think this way because they don't consider unattractive or otherwise flawed women at all. When they say "woman", they seem to really mean "sexually attractive woman" or "well adjusted woman". Other women don't count. They're not relevant, not valuable enough to factor into the equation at all.
And it just.. hurts to read? A lot of my false hope stems from the idea that I'm not all that bad looking and I could salvage my life somewhat if I just worked on my appearance, but I'm 21. I don't have much "young" left and it'd probably take at least a year to fix myself (physically; mentally would take even longer..) and then what? I'm thirty? What's even the point, then?
These are not stereotypical angry incels or anything like that. People have been nothing but kind to me for the most part and I've never been the target of any hostility at all. I don't resent any of them. Just sucks being unable to fool myself now. I won't be able to ctb for a few months and idk how I'm going to cope until then.
And men complain about how women don't want them because they're ugly, short, not confident, poor, whatever, and they're going to die alone because of it, all of that jazz. Whenever I used to see this, I'd immediately think "that's not true" because, you know, it's probably really not.
But then I realized they think this way because they don't consider unattractive or otherwise flawed women at all. When they say "woman", they seem to really mean "sexually attractive woman" or "well adjusted woman". Other women don't count. They're not relevant, not valuable enough to factor into the equation at all.
And it just.. hurts to read? A lot of my false hope stems from the idea that I'm not all that bad looking and I could salvage my life somewhat if I just worked on my appearance, but I'm 21. I don't have much "young" left and it'd probably take at least a year to fix myself (physically; mentally would take even longer..) and then what? I'm thirty? What's even the point, then?
These are not stereotypical angry incels or anything like that. People have been nothing but kind to me for the most part and I've never been the target of any hostility at all. I don't resent any of them. Just sucks being unable to fool myself now. I won't be able to ctb for a few months and idk how I'm going to cope until then.
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