NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
Define "ugly".
Do you mean the kind of beauty according to "society"? They can go to hell.
People on social networks such as instagram look more attractive than they really are. Filters, best pic angles, etc.
It's hard to believe but what really matters it's the inner self of each person.
I guess that's why I'm not interested in dating any girl randomly who is only attractive. I want to be with someone who understands my suicidal and depressing mind and helps me to move on. If she happens to like my body, cool but, that's just a plus.
As for being broke, I hope you can get some money soon! It's not impossible but you gotta do something about it!
Do you mean the kind of beauty according to "society"? They can go to hell.
People on social networks such as instagram look more attractive than they really are. Filters, best pic angles, etc.
It's hard to believe but what really matters it's the inner self of each person.
I guess that's why I'm not interested in dating any girl randomly who is only attractive. I want to be with someone who understands my suicidal and depressing mind and helps me to move on. If she happens to like my body, cool but, that's just a plus.
As for being broke, I hope you can get some money soon! It's not impossible but you gotta do something about it!
NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
Ugly is basically walking around and not a single girl look at you
I know that feeling. No girl looks at me since I got fatter but it's not impossible to meet new girls. For instance, I met one on Omegle using tags such as "depression" "suicide" "friends" and we ended up meeting and having fun a few times.
Don't give up! Trust me, you're not as "ugly" as you think.
Futile
Tired of being lonely
- Sep 3, 2020
- 499
Same, there's quite a lot of us on this site actually
Damn. I feel you. It's kind of soul crushing knowing that I will ctb and never experience someone desiring me, only feelings of pure disgust
NothingElseMatters
Warlock
- Mar 30, 2020
- 745
I've tried everything you could possible imagine, even meeting girls online, such as tinder, and no girl give a damn about me.
yive
life is evil
- Nov 6, 2020
- 696
me too, i don't even think about relationships anymore
hahabye
always say never
- Sep 14, 2019
- 314
I feel the same.
Every time I look in the mirror, I wonder what do guys ever see in me and how could anyone ever tell me I'm pretty. That just makes absolutely no sense to me.
And you're saying girls are not looking at you... Well if it helps you feel any better, I get looks and still feel ugly all the same. So it doesn't change much, not for me, at least.
Every time I look in the mirror, I wonder what do guys ever see in me and how could anyone ever tell me I'm pretty. That just makes absolutely no sense to me.
And you're saying girls are not looking at you... Well if it helps you feel any better, I get looks and still feel ugly all the same. So it doesn't change much, not for me, at least.
LenkaX
Maybe there is a hope!
- Aug 14, 2020
- 366
I have to write the same - I'm ugly af, broke af and shy af. Some others write the same too.
So at least you see there are many people with the same problem.
So at least you see there are many people with the same problem.
Op not having a single girl look at you doesn't mean your ugly !!! Means that they are than likely as shy as you ! Life isn't like a lynx advert. But sometimes life makes you feel ugly
ExhaustedExistence
Life is just waiting for death
- Mar 26, 2021
- 693
LastFlowers
the haru that can read
- Apr 27, 2019
- 2,170
Well you won't hear any insubstantial platitudes from me.
Anyone telling you that 'ugliness is subjective' or that 'everyone is beautiful', 'it's what's on the inside that counts', 'love yourself', or the woe is me "I'm pretty but still feel ugly so it doesn't matter/grass is greener", etc, is full of shit and coming from a place of privilege and ignorance that they aren't quite ready to acknowledge.
I loathe the type of responses some people give when ever this is brought up, multiple people have to come in with their dismissive attitude that stems from never having lived the life of a genuinely unattractive person.
I am always so disappointed that on this site, of all places, this very real issue of lacking good looks in a supremely superficial society is always swept under the rug, when it should be a very understandable reason for suffering.
Unless you've been there, you simply cannot understand.
And I've been there, I'm still there, and it is the least pleasant thing I have ever experienced.
It doesn't matter if I stay off social media, the standards still play out in the real world and it's the same shit that's on the screen, beyond the screen, when I walk outside my front door.
All these filters and photoshopping only came into existence because nature already set the unfair precedent and some of us had to find tools to catch up.
There is absolutely an objective, and scientifically studied standard of what makes someone appear attractive to most people. However close or however far you are from that standard, will color every aspect of your life.
I am in excruciating pain as I type this but it doesn't touch the mental and emotional pain I've endured from being discriminated against and ostracized for my appearance.
I am so sorry for you and anyone else who has to exist this way.
(also, I relate to the broke af aspect too lol, I'm screwed as far as finances go, also considered "shy" but I'm really just quiet and cautious because I know giving my opinion outside of an anonymous Internet forum will open myself up for the easy insults to be thrown at me...another detriment of looking like this.)
Anyone telling you that 'ugliness is subjective' or that 'everyone is beautiful', 'it's what's on the inside that counts', 'love yourself', or the woe is me "I'm pretty but still feel ugly so it doesn't matter/grass is greener", etc, is full of shit and coming from a place of privilege and ignorance that they aren't quite ready to acknowledge.
I loathe the type of responses some people give when ever this is brought up, multiple people have to come in with their dismissive attitude that stems from never having lived the life of a genuinely unattractive person.
I am always so disappointed that on this site, of all places, this very real issue of lacking good looks in a supremely superficial society is always swept under the rug, when it should be a very understandable reason for suffering.
Unless you've been there, you simply cannot understand.
And I've been there, I'm still there, and it is the least pleasant thing I have ever experienced.
It doesn't matter if I stay off social media, the standards still play out in the real world and it's the same shit that's on the screen, beyond the screen, when I walk outside my front door.
All these filters and photoshopping only came into existence because nature already set the unfair precedent and some of us had to find tools to catch up.
There is absolutely an objective, and scientifically studied standard of what makes someone appear attractive to most people. However close or however far you are from that standard, will color every aspect of your life.
I am in excruciating pain as I type this but it doesn't touch the mental and emotional pain I've endured from being discriminated against and ostracized for my appearance.
I am so sorry for you and anyone else who has to exist this way.
(also, I relate to the broke af aspect too lol, I'm screwed as far as finances go, also considered "shy" but I'm really just quiet and cautious because I know giving my opinion outside of an anonymous Internet forum will open myself up for the easy insults to be thrown at me...another detriment of looking like this.)
For looks, lower body fat and just hit the gym.
For shy, go out and put yourself out there. Make random convos at the bus stop. Get a job where your with people constantly.
Heck, when you do get talking to people, new or old...literally say your shy and wanna become more social/better at it. You'd be surprised that nobody cares if your shy, just don't go creepy weird stuff lol
For shy, go out and put yourself out there. Make random convos at the bus stop. Get a job where your with people constantly.
Heck, when you do get talking to people, new or old...literally say your shy and wanna become more social/better at it. You'd be surprised that nobody cares if your shy, just don't go creepy weird stuff lol
nopointofliving
Warrior
- Apr 19, 2021
- 513
I have a greek god pretty face, no issues striking a conversation with anyone. But I'm also plagued by an uncurable disease and consumed by severe depression. Life is twisted isn't it?
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