Im sorry to everyone

[*Hope*]

Just talked to my family about my issues and made them cry.... im absolutely gutted... i never intended to make other people sad, especially the people that love me.

I also want to apologise for previous thread I made. I wasted peoples time by talking things that I shouldve kept to myself..

I cant believe that my life only makes other sad, Im so miserable that i pull others down with me.

I wont be creating another thread. Im sorry for my previous one

 

[KleinerWolf]

Just talked to my family about my issues and made them cry.... im absolutely gutted... i never intended to make other people sad, especially the people that love me.

I also want to apologise for previous thread I made. I wasted peoples time by talking things that I shouldve kept to myself..

I cant believe that my life only makes other sad, Im so miserable that i pull others down with me.

I wont be creating another thread. Im sorry for my previous one

Hey sweetheart you can make as many threads as you'd like,
People appear sad because they feel compassionate about your struggles.
Life isn't perfect, we are all dealing with a lot.
I'm sorry to hear your struggles but I hope you can find a way to overcome them if oneday in the near future you are in a position to do so.
*hugs*

 

[botanormal]

I am so sorry you received that reaction, it must've been so disheartening to see them react in that way. Sometimes, people just don't understand us in the ways we hope they will, but that's not your fault at all. If you needed to open up and talk, you had every right to do so, and you deserve a space to freely express yourself. You don't ever need to apologise for talking, especially not here, that's what this site is for. I know how painful it must've felt to receive that reaction, so I completely understand why you feel the way you do. But it's not your fault, okay? You can't control how other people react, and you're not a bad person for wanting to be heard. I hope that you can continue to talk about things here, because you deserve the space to talk about your issues. Even if your family cannot fully understand you, I hope you can receive some understanding here, even if it isn't exactly the same. I'm sending you the biggest hugs right now!

 

[justletmedieplease]

Gurl what, no. Fuck all these people who just reacted to your posts without saying a word
Your struggles are valid. The fact that your family doesn't want to support you through them, or at the very least acknowledge your issues, says a lot about their parenting. You don't make others sad with your life, everyone goes through shit - others just hide it better. I know that your problems are more serious though. Just know that your struggles are valid and you have got nothing to be ashamed of.
Also, hear my advice - people on this site are absolute fucking miserable cunts who really gotta kill themselves sooner. I made a post the other day talking about my despair with life and all they did was mock me. I'm telling you this as to not care about anything people say on here. I guarantee you that you will find the light one day, there must be at least one thing that will make all the bs we've been through worthwhile

 

[Deleted member 22624]

Well done, I think communication is best, even if it's hard. Otherwise everyone has more regrets. Sending you hugs. Glad you're here

 

[Spitfire]

people on this site are absolute fucking miserable cunts who really gotta kill themselves sooner.

This does not really sound like an okay thing to say.

 

[*Hope*]

Gurl what, no. Fuck all these people who just reacted to your posts without saying a word
Your struggles are valid. The fact that your family doesn't want to support you through them, or at the very least acknowledge your issues, says a lot about their parenting. You don't make others sad with your life, everyone goes through shit - others just hide it better. I know that your problems are more serious though. Just know that your struggles are valid and you have got nothing to be ashamed of.
Also, hear my advice - people on this site are absolute fucking miserable cunts who really gotta kill themselves sooner. I made a post the other day talking about my despair with life and all they did was mock me. I'm telling you this as to not care about anything people say on here. I guarantee you that you will find the light one day, there must be at least one thing that will make all the bs we've been through worthwhile

My family does want to support me and help me anyway they can. They love me with all their heart, but they just dont know how to help. I just hope im not a burden to them, they deserve better

 

[justletmedieplease]

This does not really sound like an okay thing to say.

I posted a thread, more like a vent post, and I proceeded to get DMs from two specific, lovely users, who ridiculed me and claimed I should be grateful since people have it worse than me. Is this okay?

 

[*Hope*]

I posted a thread, more like a vent post, and I proceeded to get DMs from two specific, lovely users, who ridiculed me and claimed I should be grateful since people have it worse than me. Is this okay?

Best not to let "theres someone with worse problems" comments get to you.
I think that people that have it worse then you also get that reply, so its pointless.
Truth is, other peoples suffering doesnt make your situation any better. If anything, knowing that others suffer even more than I do makes my heart break even more.

Wish you happiness and a solution to your problems !

 

[sourpink]

I posted a thread, more like a vent post, and I proceeded to get DMs from two specific, lovely users, who ridiculed me and claimed I should be grateful since people have it worse than me. Is this okay?

the whole exchange you're describing is awful. you were, based on what you've said in this thread, seeking support or validation. you did not receive that, and what you did receive wasn't ok. but that doesn't make it ok for you to directly say there are people here who "should kill themselves sooner". that's no more ok than what they said to you imo. I'm sorry you received such shitty responses but that doesn't give you free license to be an ass in retaliation without consequence. but then, I don't think I saw that thread. I just saw @Spitfire comment what they did and was glad to see I was not the only one thinking that. you don't deserve to be invalidated especially here, where many of us are vulnerable. but do remember many of us are vulnerable before you publicly say some people deserve to die faster simply because you were hurt by what they said to you.
neither is ok.

also, OP (@*noHOPEleft*), please don't convince yourself your thoughts are unwelcome here. they certainly are welcome and I think a lot of people here would rather help you feel supported than further your feelings of isolation. sending love.

 

[Spitfire]

I posted a thread, more like a vent post, and I proceeded to get DMs from two specific, lovely users, who ridiculed me and claimed I should be grateful since people have it worse than me. Is this okay?

I am not sure of having seen that thread?

If I had, and people on it were calling you a miserable cunt and telling you that you should kill yourself soon because of it, then I am sure I would have said something in that thread too.. if I had seen it.

Obviously, I have no idea what was exchanged between you and them in those DMs.

 

[Kbeau]

No worries - whatever you need, here or elsewhere

 

[grungeCat]

Don't blame yourself for sharing your problems. I'm sure you do everything to solve them so it's not your fault if they still occurr. Life isn't fair and sometimes troubles are too overwhelming to endure them alone. You just asked for help and attention. There's nothing wrong with this. Create as many threads as you like.

 

[Serio]

Just talked to my family about my issues and made them cry.... im absolutely gutted... i never intended to make other people sad, especially the people that love me.

I also want to apologise for previous thread I made. I wasted peoples time by talking things that I shouldve kept to myself..

I cant believe that my life only makes other sad, Im so miserable that i pull others down with me.

I wont be creating another thread. Im sorry for my previous one

Hey ! Your not pulling anyone down with you they are crying because they care abt you and that's a good thing because if they care about you that means YOU make THEM Happy. Because if you didn't they wouldn't be so upset to know that your in that kind of pain. So just keep pushing forward and you got this they obviously love you and that's why they cried because you make them happy more so then you make them sad. Make as many threads as you like and it's great you talked because your tryna seek help which a lot of people don't have courage to do so keep pushing as best you can!

 

[BandAddict]

What else is this place for? I'd say most people here are sad, and we share sad things. But you know what? Feeling sad is sometimes better than feeling nothing at all. I'm not sure what your previous thread was about, but if it caused other people to feel things, that's just empathy being expressed, because we all know pain, even though our pain is different. Empathy is honestly an amazing trait, even if it's uncomfortable.

I'm sorry that whatever happened made you feel bad about opening up, but I think it's better than keeping it all bottled up inside. This is a safe space, and people have the choice to read or ignore a post.

I'm glad you have a caring family, and I think it was a good thing for you to talk with them. It's definitely not easy. Take care~