Discussion I'm planning to CTB but I don't want anyone outside family to be informed of my death . Is that even possible ?

[deadzombie6]

Basically the title . Gonna CTB using Sn in the coming summer vacation to avoid classmates or teachers knowing about my death . But the problem is that my maths teacher is a close friend of my aunt so in a way the news of my death can not only reach current classmate but also old classmates which I don't want in any situation . I wonder if there's any way for this to be avoided . I just want to disappear like i never existed i don't want people who hate me to get satisfaction from my death ):

 

[Well_Its_Time]

I think this will depend just on your family. Word does get around quickly when the ambulance and police arrive. I believe people that care about you will find out. Just my opinion.

 

[foreverstardust]

I don't think there's anything you could do to stop your family talking about you after you die, even if you have a will that states you want an entirely private funeral/burial/whatever, your family would still have the right to talk about you and your death to anyone they want. I know when I was in school whenever a kid or teacher died the whole school was made aware of it, and it's almost impossible to stop the spread of information once one person knows.

 

[yehxlder.666]

Write them a note saying you don't want anybody else to know, thats the best you can do. Still, if people who care about you realize you've been missing, it might not take long untill they find out about it.

 

[Aprilfarewell4]

i understand i don't anyone i know to know either. i don't want them to know how bad i screwed myself up. i feel like a failure, ashamed of how stupid i was to have ended up how i did. i also don't want people to think it was because of people i knew who also killed themslevs for other reasons. i think people will try to blame it partially on that. it's not true, it was for reasons i have tried to hide from people bc i want them to remember who i was not what i became. it's hard. my way is too try to get far enough into the wilderness to not be found. my dad and close friends already know, but most people don't and i want it to stay that way. i don't know if that is an option for you but it would be the only thing i could think of. good luck and I am sorry you are having to even consider such things.

 

[futurecorpse]

I honestly don't think there's a way to avoid it :// I worry about mainly my sister telling a lot of people about my death. She LOVES to talk, so I just know she'll blab about it. She already told some people I tried to ctb last month. I also think writing a note is the best thing you can do and ask them to respect your privacy. At the end of the day, we won't be there to control what people say. It's something we'll have to accept