Spite
Nil desperandum
- Aug 20, 2025
- 120
I've pretty much been practically friendless my entire life. I have no social life. I never hangout with anyone. I'm always alone. I'm autistic, depressed, crippled with social anxiety and have been for as long as I can remember. I hardly relate to anyone and trying to socialise with people is agonising. I'm such an incredibly awkward, embarrassing mess. I can barely look at people in the eyes and I trip over my words and panic whenever I have to interact with someone, like at my job for example.
I'm not "cool" and never have been. I've always been a loser. I'm extremely quiet and introverted. Everyone around me in my day-to-day life is so loud, outgoing and extroverted and it makes me very uncomfortable. Even my family is like this and I'm the odd one out. I've never fit in anywhere. I feel like I don't belong anywhere and I was never meant for this world. I feel so... so alien, so robotic compared to almost everybody else, like... my mind, my personality, and the way I think makes me feel like I am from an entirely different dimension or something. I don't know what the hell I am. I sometimes don't even feel like I'm human.
I've always wished I could belong in a friend group. I've always wanted to go watch a movie with friends. Go on a road trip with friends. Go bowling with friends. I've never been able to experience anything like that ever. It's humiliating and I have missed out on so much in life. I get very upset when I see other people my age and younger living their lives to the fullest and hanging out with their friends because it serves as a stark reminder of everything I have missed out on.
I'm 27, starting to push towards 30 now. It feels like the older I'm getting it's becoming more and more impossible to try to make and keep friends. This is getting weirder the older I'm getting, too.
I've tried everything. I've tried joining social groups. I've tried going out places and meeting people. Nothing has ever worked. I'm at the point now where I really either have to seriously fight for this and give it my all, or I need to accept my fate, surrender and somehow find peace with the fact that I was probably destined to go through life as a friendless outcast. It's so incredibly painful, though.
I hate my situation and going through life without friends is horrible. I truly feel like my life isn't even worth living.
I'm not "cool" and never have been. I've always been a loser. I'm extremely quiet and introverted. Everyone around me in my day-to-day life is so loud, outgoing and extroverted and it makes me very uncomfortable. Even my family is like this and I'm the odd one out. I've never fit in anywhere. I feel like I don't belong anywhere and I was never meant for this world. I feel so... so alien, so robotic compared to almost everybody else, like... my mind, my personality, and the way I think makes me feel like I am from an entirely different dimension or something. I don't know what the hell I am. I sometimes don't even feel like I'm human.
I've always wished I could belong in a friend group. I've always wanted to go watch a movie with friends. Go on a road trip with friends. Go bowling with friends. I've never been able to experience anything like that ever. It's humiliating and I have missed out on so much in life. I get very upset when I see other people my age and younger living their lives to the fullest and hanging out with their friends because it serves as a stark reminder of everything I have missed out on.
I'm 27, starting to push towards 30 now. It feels like the older I'm getting it's becoming more and more impossible to try to make and keep friends. This is getting weirder the older I'm getting, too.
I've tried everything. I've tried joining social groups. I've tried going out places and meeting people. Nothing has ever worked. I'm at the point now where I really either have to seriously fight for this and give it my all, or I need to accept my fate, surrender and somehow find peace with the fact that I was probably destined to go through life as a friendless outcast. It's so incredibly painful, though.
I hate my situation and going through life without friends is horrible. I truly feel like my life isn't even worth living.
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