Cockney_Rebel

Cockney_Rebel

Everything you want is on the other side of fear.
Jan 7, 2021
455
As per the title?

Maybe they are suffering with a terminal illness, or lifelong deep depression, or have been severely and unrepairably injured?

Would you help them to CTB?

Either by physically helping them, or by offering advice on how to do it?
 
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Celerity

Celerity

shape without form, shade without colour
Jan 24, 2021
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I'd say yes, but it would realistically be very hard to do. I also have a selfish reason to hesitate - the threat of jail time if someone finds out.
 
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CatTheBus5689

CatTheBus5689

Member
Jun 22, 2021
76
If they were physically ill I would not hesitate to assist them once all other options are exhausted. After all I would want the option to be available for me.

But if it was just mental issues I would offer my time to at least help them cope and live another day. If they really don't want to live no matter what then I'd rather be there to make sure they don't suffer at the very least.
 
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weepingfree

weepingfree

Time’s tide will smother you, and I will too
Feb 28, 2020
90
I would help them because I believe it's a person's right to kill themselves. Even if they're not suffering at all... We have the technology to make exiting this world peaceful and easy.

I have nothing that would qualify me for Pegasos or any mercy-based assisted suicide group. But I've been living with misery and loneliness for decades and I want that to stop. So I'm going to extend that mercy to anyone who wants to end their life for any reason.

Of course, then we get into what method they want to use, and I'm not trying to buy anyone a rifle. But I want people to exit when and how they want.
 
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Midgardsorm

Midgardsorm

Paragon
Apr 28, 2020
918
I would be worried about being charged for illegal euthanasia, but if it's someone I love dearly and if this someone is suffering, then yes.
 
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Jblack

Jblack

Specialist
Oct 8, 2018
314
I would help them. If I didn't that would make me a hypocrite for going against my belief that we must be allowed to live and die as we choose. I have spoken out about the comments make by those who do not want to allow us to die with dignity on our terms. So why would I not help someone who wants to end their life on their terms?
 
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Alwaysbadtime

Alwaysbadtime

Enlightened
Jun 28, 2021
1,158
Of course. Advice sure...actually doing it for them...no.
 
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WrongPlaceWrongTime

WrongPlaceWrongTime

Better never to have been
Jul 4, 2021
695
Yeah, while being cautious of the possibility of going to jail for illegally assisting suicide.
 
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PeacePlease

PeacePlease

A wandering body without a heart
Feb 26, 2019
49
Asuming I am in the same spot I am right now (desperately trying to leave) I'd say we both help each other and do it together.
 
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Cockney_Rebel

Cockney_Rebel

Everything you want is on the other side of fear.
Jan 7, 2021
455
Asuming I am in the same spot I am right now (desperately trying to leave) I'd say we both help each other and do it together.
I have actually found my exit partner (via the dedicated thread on here) and we are planning on jumping next month.

Thus, I completely agree with you.
 
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weepingfree

weepingfree

Time’s tide will smother you, and I will too
Feb 28, 2020
90
That's incredible, man. I'm glad.
 
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Antigonish

Antigonish

Mage
Sep 19, 2020
593
Not really. I'm kinda selfish with the right to CTB. In a way that I honestly believe it belongs to me alone. Nothing before I lived. Nothing when I die. Nothing after I die. So I try to talk everyone down. But it they're adamant, I'll support never assist. I view ctbing as a intimate thing like sex. I won't share it with just anyone unless they're special to me.
 
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HelloAllYouPeople

Member
Jul 6, 2021
65
I would accompany them in their last moments. If it weren't illegal, I would gladly be company for people in their suicide. Just talk to them like I'm hanging out with a friend on a grocery trip.
I believe no one deserves to die alone unless they want to.
 
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Kattt

Kattt

Ancient of Mu-Mu
May 18, 2021
799
If they are rational sure. Not letting the dog suffer
 
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FuneralCry

FuneralCry

Just wanting some peace
Sep 24, 2020
37,644
I know assisted suicide is illegal, but I strongly believe in the right to die. I wouldn't want a family member to suffer for decades, when it is against their wishes.
 
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Largeletters

Largeletters

Alone
Jan 21, 2020
640
No, unless under very special circumstances. I've had many people reach out to me, friends and exes, in states of despair, and I tried to talk them out of it.
 
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Anonymous 4

Anonymous 4

Specialist
Jun 26, 2021
304
Depends what u mean , but yes, that being on my own judgment if I could see there was no other way
 
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Freelyffe88

Freelyffe88

Member
Jun 28, 2021
98
Of course... without any shadow of a doubt
 
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DetachedDreamer97

DetachedDreamer97

Enlightened
Mar 17, 2018
1,402
Yeah, if they're dead set on it, I will.
 
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ClairyFairy

ClairyFairy

Wizard
Jan 22, 2021
623
If my mum gets any sort of dementia I wouldn't hesitate to help her. Her and my father have a pact anyway because she wouldn't want any of us in trouble. I don't want her gone but she wouldn't want to live herself.
 
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motel rooms

motel rooms

Survivor of incest. Gay. Please don't PM me.
Apr 13, 2021
7,086
If I find someone to love, I'll probably kill them again, yeah.
 
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chocolatebar

chocolatebar

Paragon
Jul 11, 2021
975
It's easier said than done. Recently, my girlfriend asked me how I would kill myself and I, naively, told her how. Last night, se sent me a message saying she was about to kill herself, exactly the way I mentioned, and I can't contact her for several hours.
I'm devastated, not only with the fear of losing her, but I feel extremely guilty and responsible for what she might have done.
 
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ConfusedAndWeird

Member
Apr 12, 2021
48
I would help them figure out how to CTB because I would want that same help myself. In a way I might even be relieved because I know they won't be miserable and left behind after I CTB. I can't ever see life as a good thing and don't really see why people don't just work together to make humanity die off so no person has to suffer anymore, but that's just my opinion. The only thing I would be worried about is getting arrested for helping but I don't believe in the moral authority of the courts, I'm only worried about the consequences they could throw at me.
 
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Largeletters

Largeletters

Alone
Jan 21, 2020
640
It's easier said than done. Recently, my girlfriend asked me how I would kill myself and I, naively, told her how. Last night, se sent me a message saying she was about to kill herself, exactly the way I mentioned, and I can't contact her for several hours.
I'm devastated, not only with the fear of losing her, but I feel extremely guilty and responsible for what she might have done.
Did you ever hear back from her?
 
chocolatebar

chocolatebar

Paragon
Jul 11, 2021
975
Did you ever hear back from her?
She contacted me and said she was sorry for leaving me worried like that, but but also said that she only didn't do it today because she couldn't get the privacy needed, so, I'm still pretty worried.
 
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Largeletters

Largeletters

Alone
Jan 21, 2020
640
She contacted me and said she was sorry for leaving me worried like that, but but also said that she only didn't do it today because she couldn't get the privacy needed, so, I'm still pretty worried.
I'm sorry to hear that, but I'm glad to hear she's still here
 
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whywere

Visionary
Jun 26, 2020
2,930
Oh..great question! Would I? No. I would not for, well besides the obvious of law enforcement, because even if it is not a spur of the monument idea, it is something that I could not live with. Call me weak and/or coward, but I could not do it. Walter
 
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hʚll

hʚll

not real.
Jun 18, 2021
467
yeah. i would help them. i also would kill myself after i have helped them
 
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toforigivelife

Arcanist
Jul 5, 2021
493
Bumping thread.
 
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