If a friend hurt you and refused to apologize for what they did, would you be happy if they stopped existing?

[Water-Lily]

Would you feel a sense of relief that they're no longer around to hurt you? That their bad presence is gone completely?

Wouldn't that be freeing?

 

[GuessWhosBack]

idc

 

[Karl Heisenberg]

I don't have friends so I don't know.

 

[LostInTheWoods]

no wtf you guys scare me sometimes

 

[AbsentMindedHuman]

Plenty of people have wronged me or hurt me in the past. I dont think that makes me wish they were dead or happy if that was the case. Just like most things its best to try and move on and remove them from your life... like stop seeing them, not wish they died. That can be just as freeing. That kind of mindset is how murderer's are born....

 

[Water-Lily]

Plenty of people have wronged me or hurt me in the past. I dont think that makes me wish they were dead or happy if that was the case. Just like most things its best to try and move on and remove them from your life... like stop seeing them, not wish they died. That can be just as freeing. That kind of mindset is how murderer's are born....

I feel after my screw up my friends will be happier since I'm gone

 

[AbsentMindedHuman]

I feel after my screw up my friends will be happier since I'm gone

That I can agree with. I feel that way all the time

 

[littleinsanity]

No lol, sucks that there's no apology but they are still my friend and they simply believe they weren't in the wrong. The severity may depend on how they hurt me but I won't wish for anyone to stop existing over it

 

[CantDoIt]

No, first my depression isn't their fault in this circumstance an second I just don't want to be vindictive in that way

 

[Gstreater]

I don't think so because to some extent i still care for them, I've been hurt a lot over the years but I've only wanted one person to so existing and it's the person that sexually manipulated and abused me when I was little.

 

[ThatGuyOverThere]

Nah, That's why you shouldn't befriend people in the first place.

They can never hurt you if you never meet them in the first place.

 

[Jeav]

No, I wouldn't blame a person who is unaware of their bad actions. Sometimes they are victims of their environment, and we can't know that unless we put ourselves in their perspective.

I did bad things in life, and when I looked back on them and tried to understand why, I realized it was simply due to my toxic environment, my stubbornness ans also my lack of experience and maturity.

 

[maniac116]

Would you feel a sense of relief that they're no longer around to hurt you? That their bad presence is gone completely?

Wouldn't that be freeing?

I would feel bad that we no longer had a chance to resolve our differences.

 

[fleetingnight]

I've been treated terribly by some ex-friends, but I can't think of one I want dead, even if I want them out of my life